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    Mother to six Little Women and Two Little Men. Married to a Happy Mortician. Caretaker to goats, chickens and many, MANY bunnies. Photographer. Homeschooler. Lover of Jesus, coffee & tea and all things pink & vintage.

From Hummingbird to Eagle

“What does the study of birds do for the imagination, that high power possessed by humans alone,
that lifts them upward step by step into new realms of discovery and joy?
If the thought of a tiny hummingbird, a mere atom in the universe,
migrating from New England to Central America will not stimulate a child’s imagination,
then all the tales of fairies and giants and beautiful princesses …
will not cause his sluggish fancy to roam.”

– Birds Every Child Should Know, 1907

 

 

“A home is just not a home until a bird feeder is hung,” I said, one recent morning as I whipped up some eggs into a frothy billowing state, ready for the first breakfast round in our family. “Girls, we must get our hummingbird feeder unpacked and hang it up.”

 

The eggs were poured in the waiting, hot frying pan as the older children set the breakfast table. The little ones, tired from a beautiful day outdoors in the country air, were still sound asleep, worlds away, tucked in their little beds. The breakfast eggs cooked, the coffee was prepared and the breakfast dishes laid out … but as soon as I placed the dish of scrambled eggs onto old wooden kitchen table, I excused myself and headed outdoors.

One thing was on my mind – to find our hummingbird feeder and fill it.

In Ontario, we enjoyed the daily shows of our hummingbirds, who religiously dipped and dived into our flower beds, drinking back the sweet nectar of the honeysuckle vine, the daylilies and the bee balm. As a mother, with a move across four provinces, I was sensitive to making sure our new home felt like our old home in the ways that bring back lovely memories. A hummingbird feeder, and watching the tiniest of birds in amazement, was one part of my children’s childhood I did not want to interrupt.

Soon, with earnest effort, the hummingbird feeder was located in our big old, messy barn (still to be organized) and brought into the kitchen, washed and refilled with sugary nectar for our miniature feathered friends.

It was not long until we had our lovely little visitors … and what a delight! We have two large kitchen windows, just praticaly perfect for bird watching – one window at the children’s height and one window at the adult’s height. Every morning, I am truly blessed with a little showcase of our hummingbirds’ fancy flying skills …

 

“Lift me up, lift me up!” I heard one morning as I was joyfully watching my tiny feathered friends out the kitchen window. Scraping a kitchen chair across the floor, three year old Loyal squirmed up onto the chair and leaned on the counter. “Oh, I see him, I see him!”

“What child does not know the hummingbird, the jewelled midget that flashes through the garden,
poses before a flower as if suspended in the air by magic,
thrusts a needle-like bill into one cup of nectar after another, then whirs off out of sight in a trice?
Don’t you think it is worth while to plant his favorites in your garden if only for the joy of seeing him about?”
-Birds Ever Child Should Know

 

 

“Loyal, we must go get a honeysuckle vine and plant it,” I said, lifting him off the stool and leading him to the back door. “You know that’s the hummingbird’s favourite flower! Let’s go plant in right by the porch…  we want to see LOTS of hummingbirds!”

A few hour later, with the red nectar-vine planted quite close to our back porch, the children and I sat back in awe as we watched multiple shimmering hummingbirds, shining in the warm sunshine, zoom about from feeder to flower. I’m so thankful we have planted so many flowers since we have moved to this new home. It would not be summer without the visits of our bird friends, bees, and butterflies. Training my children to watch nature slowly and without rush, to view the hummingbird as a splendid creation of God, to see beauty in all forms of nature … that is a goal of mine …

A few weeks prior, while on a morning walk down our road, I spotted a glorious bald eagle, his broad wings majestically spread, his white head shining in the morning sun … we loved watching the eagles at our former home .. and now, my Heavenly Father has seen fit to allow us the blessing of watching even more eagles in our blue, blue skies overhead. While some may just say that it is natural to see bald eagles along the shores of an ocean, I feel it is a gift from my Heavenly Father. From hummingbirds to eagles, I feel His presence and am so humbled to receive such beautiful gifts. We could walk right by a hummingbird and not see the little flying creature as a gift from Heaven … a tiny reason to stop us and sit and watch the delicate beauty in nature … to turn your eyes to skies and see two bald eagles flying overhead, wondering where their nest is and considering their strength and majesty is to say “Thank you” to God. Thank you for the littlelst of birds to the might eagle – God is wonderfully good.

What God-sent gifts — perhaps unoticed by the rest of the world –  have come your way recently?

 

 

“And from Humming-Bird to Eagle,
the daily existence of every bird
is a remote and bewitching mystery.
~Thomas Wentworth Higginson,
“The Life of Birds,” Out-door Papers, 1868

 

 

Post Script:
For those who asked about the recipe for the syrup, here it is from a Hummingbird information website:

 

Hummingbird syrup recipe instructions:

The hummingbird syrup recipe calls for a 4 to 1 ratio of water to sugar. This ratio will produce a solution that is close to the actual nectar that hummingbirds get from plants.

The hummingbird syrup recipe calls for boiling the nectar to release any chlorine that might be in the water and to kill any mold spores or any other unwanted organisms that might be in the sugar. This will allow your nectar to keep as long as possible before going bad.

In a pan on your stove, add 4 parts water and stir in the 1 part sugar as you bring the mixture to a boil. Stir in the sugar until it is completely dissolved. Boil for about 2 minutes. When the hummingbird syrup recipe is cool you can add it to your feeder. Any unused portion can be stored in your frig. for up to 2 weeks

If your syrup goes bad or moldy, as it will in the heat, boil your feeder clean and add new syrup.

August 2, 2021 - 2:36 pm

Gigi Lynnea, I would love to see a Golden Eagle! I don’t think I have ever seen one in real life. It must be wonderful!

August 2, 2021 - 1:54 pm

Lynnea Hello again, Gigi,
I hope you don’t mind my adding a couple more thoughts…
I love that a goal you have is to train your children to “watch nature slowly and without a rush”. Your own interest and excitement about nature seem to be wonderfully contagious to your children!
I also love that you captured that precious moment of excitement with your young son asking to see the hummingbirds from the window, and then proceeded to go outside with him to plant the honeysuckle vine nearby! Lovely! ~ Lynnea

August 1, 2021 - 7:59 pm

Lynnea Thank you for the lovely pictures and post! ❤️
Our little hummingbird feeders need filling daily as our wee friends have been very thirsty due to the hot, very dry and smokey air here this summer. I find it is a pleasure to keep them steadily supplied. Those flowers you’ve provided for them look like a delicious treat!
My husband refills the seed feeders almost daily for our other bird friends such as finches, black-headed grosbeaks, and eastern kingbirds. We also fill the birdbath at least twice a day and have been seeing bluebirds, robins, and finches bathing and splashing about in the water, which is so much fun to watch!
The eagles are so magnificent and it is a pleasure to see and hear them flying. There is also an eagle refuge nearby where two bald eagles and two golden eagles are living at this time.
God’s beautiful unique creations abound!❤️

August 1, 2021 - 5:13 pm

Gigi Laura, I was going to make mention of this bird, as well, but we always watched Blue Herons with delight at our old place – and now, we have SO MANY Blue Herons everywhere. It’s just lovely! Another gift from my Father! I was picking wildflowers across the road and heard a tremendous rush of wings and looked up to see this large, lovely Blue Heron make his ascent from the tree above me. It was beautiful. P.S. Your daughter might enjoy The Tale of Jeremy Vole, which begins with a message to the animals from a Blue Heron. That is what peaked our interest in watching this beautiful bird.

August 1, 2021 - 3:30 pm

Laura Jeanne Oh, my word! What astonishing photography Gillian! What a gift you have! I have not once yet in my entire life been able to capture a hummingbird on camera – the little darlings move so quickly!

I do have a hummingbird feeder that I bought at the dollar store earlier in the year – now you’ve inspired me to find it and put it up.

I love the idea of dying it red with raspberries, too – how clever. 🙂

I love to see eagles, as well. Lately, around our place, we have been blessed to see a great blue heron over and over again. He seems to like our neighbourhood, and one time Amy saw him perched right on top of our house!

August 1, 2021 - 2:36 pm

Joanne Gillian

The hummingbirds are delightful. I can just imagine how intriguing they are to watch.

July 30, 2021 - 5:54 pm

Gigi Also, I used raspberries to dye the syrup as the feeder is blue.

July 30, 2021 - 5:52 pm

Gigi Jen, I have had mine go bad, as well. I drain it and clean it and try it again. The heat affects the syrup, so you just watch it. Sometimes the syrup is gone so quickly from the hummingbirds that no extra work is necessary to prevent spoilage.
Enjoy those delightful little birds!

July 30, 2021 - 5:46 pm

Jen Heemskerk Amazing photos of such a fast bird!!! Can I ask how you make your hummingbird syrup? Recipe? I recently made one with just water and sugar and it went bad, so not sure what on earth I did wrong. Any tips would be helpful!

The {New} Island Way of Life

“You never know what peace is until you walk on the shores or in the fields
or along the winding red roads of Prince Edward Island
in a summer twilight when the dew is falling and the old stars are peeping out
and the sea keeps its might tryst with the little land it loves.
You realize that youth is not a vanished thing but something that dwells forever in the heart.”

– L.M. Montgomery

 

 

As I sit here writing this entry, there is a great big sea sparkling out my kitchen window, framed by my grandmother’s lace curtains, which she gifted me when we left Ontario. There is much to write about, so much that is is a bit overwhelming to write it all done. I can write and say that we all truly are enjoying our new home, new province, new farm and new surroundings. There have been so many blessings and little gifts from God that it just amazes me. Our father truly does take care of His children.

 

Every morning, the sounds of the fishmerman heading out to the cove to begin their workday draw me from my slumber. Faithfully, the men load their boats into the waters every morning at 4:30 a.m.  Our area is very popular for clams and oysters and we are told lobsters, as well. I love that the traffic on our road is a range from fishermen to farmers with large hay wagons, loaded down with the winter’s supply.

 

We have been busy setting up house, fixing up the barn (still not finished), buying a cow and calf, settling in the chickens, children and dogs … planting the garden — vegetables and flowers alike! – and attempting to find those lost items  that seemingly vanished during our large and hasty move.

 

But one of the first things to set up was the hummingbird and bird feeders and some wind chimes, family photos on the bare walls and flowers into the empty beds. Home must look and feel cozy – no matter if we have just moved or not.

We are taking every Friday off to explore and do something fun as a family. These cliffs are just down the road from us – such a beautiful sight …!

 

The wildflowers have been in full bloom since we arrived — arraying the island roadways in amazing colour and beauty. The lupines bloomed in front of our house and the girls and I were so excited to see the vibrant colours!

Although some would shudder at the hefty change of moving provinces– especially with a large family —  I would suggest … if strings are tugging on your heart, pray and follow God’s leading. You do not know what adventure is in store for you and your family! Step out in faith.

 

“If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.”

 

I will be working on keeping the blog updated over summer – I apologize for the delay. Life has been so wonderfully full! I am feeling very, very blessed … right now, dinner time calls, but more to come … soon … after I shake the sand from my feet, dry off the baby from his dip in the ocean and water my flowers and red-soil vegetable gardens!

 

July 19, 2021 - 10:24 am

Liette Girard Gillian. It is so nice to hear from you and see the pictures of your precious family. I’m so happy that you are loving the island. It is beautiful. God bless you are all the family. P. S. Spécial hi to Abby. Love you all.

July 16, 2021 - 6:57 am

Teresa Gigi, I could simply picture all the lovely things you wrote in the post, what a great writer you are! I could only imagine the sounds of your lovely morning,I bet you can hardly believe your there. What a beautiful family photo in front of your new home. I look forward to all the many post this summer. Hugs to you sweet friend!

July 15, 2021 - 7:46 pm

Lynnea Hi Gigi,
I found this remedy in the laundry section of the book “Home Comforts” by Cheryl Mendelson. “Red clay can be rubbed with a paste of vinegar and table salt. Leave for 30 minutes. Launder with hottest water safe for that fabric and bleach. Repeat if needed.”
Back in those days I did use bleach but now I do not ~ I wonder if a bleach substitute might work instead of liquid bleach, or a natural detergent booster such as borax.?
I hope you find something that works for you!
~Lynnea
P.S. This book has so much helpful information about housekeeping. She also wrote another book on the subject of Laundry – perhaps there is more info in that one.?

July 14, 2021 - 6:56 pm

Gigi Lynnea, I did not know there were other places with red soil. How fascinating! YES, it is very challenging to get the stains out of clothing!

July 14, 2021 - 6:56 pm

Gigi Melanie, I did not know that – maybe one day we will meet up again in the east. New Brunswick was quite beautiful as we drove through! Gorgeous!

July 14, 2021 - 6:55 pm

Gigi Thank you, Michelle. I have loads to write – just need to find the time!

July 14, 2021 - 3:58 pm

Michelle Your writings and photos are ALWAYS very encouraging!! Thanks so much for sharing your life and thoughts!!

July 13, 2021 - 10:27 pm

Melanie Gillian! Just decided to check in and see if you were still writing your blog and I come to find you’ve moved down east!!! Congrats! I was born in New Brunswick so the east coast holds a near and dear place in my heart! Glad to see you all are settling in nicely!

July 12, 2021 - 10:14 pm

Erin Lynn Don’t be overwhelmed to write! We are thankful for any little tidbit on your beautiful family and lovely new home!!!

July 12, 2021 - 7:58 pm

Lynnea So good to read about and see the loveliness of your family settling in and exploring the sights and scenery at the new homestead!
I love that one of the first things you did was hang up the hummingbird and bird feeders. We have been steadily refilling the feeders and birdbath for our beloved bird friends. It’s a blessing watching them and tending to them!
We are having a very hot and dry summer, so seeing the pretty flowers and lush green grasses is refreshing! 🙂
When we lived in Georgia years ago we had red soil but everything grew so well there…it was somewhat difficult at times keeping the redness from being tracked into the house! 🙂
Thank you, Gigi, for sharing the blessings❤️
~ Lynnea

July 12, 2021 - 12:07 pm

Kristal Gillian, those cliffs are breathtaking! How fun to have so much to explore and discover together. I hope to hear more about what led to this exciting move! I sent you an e-mail around the time you moved (bad timing I know). Please let me know if you need me to re-send it. 🙂 Have a wonderful week! -Kristal

July 9, 2021 - 1:55 pm

Christina How lovely it all looks and sounds! Congratulations on your new farm. Home is where your heart is they say and your heart (mine too) shines for God and your family. Many blessings. I can’t wait to read more.

July 9, 2021 - 4:12 am

Gigi Yes, Laura, I am praying for you. You know how to reach me if you need it… ((Hugs))

July 8, 2021 - 10:42 pm

Regina Shea It’s good to hear from you. I enjoy reading your posts.Your children are getting so big!

July 8, 2021 - 9:21 pm

Laura Jeanne Dear Gillian, as usual your post brought tears to my eyes.

Your life, and your family, and your new surroundings are all just so beautiful. I’m so glad that you have been so richly blessed. And I truly look forward to more blog posts from you this summer filled with your gorgeous photography.

May I please be bold and ask you to say a little prayer for me tonight? I’m going through a bit of a hard time. God knows why. <3

Home {Sweet} Home: Calico Cove

“This Island is the bloomiest place.
I just love it already,
and I am so glad I’m going to live here.”

-Anne Shirley

 

 

 

 

If it has been rather quiet on the blog lately … it is because our family has made a rather large move — into another province!

Yes, we quickly packed up our lovely home in Ontario this past month, after it sold abruptly in a week’s time, and headed east … in the direction of our new home in “The Place in the Sun” —  Prince Edward Island.

As I walk the little trails around our new Island property, smell the salty air, see the birds in the trees and pick another bouquet of wildflowers for the kitchen table, I am in awe and complete gratitude fills my heart. How did we end up here? It is just so lovely and so wonderful – a new home for an old soul.

It is rather surprising to me to still wake up and realize I am in another province and another home – I have lived in Ontario since I was a little girl – although I was born on the west coast of Canada. Being near the ocean has never been an option for our family, but here, suddenly, we are … sitting on the coast line of the Atlantic Ocean … with a little homestead to call our own. We packed up our chickens, our mini horses, plants and herbs, household belongings – and children! – and headed east with much anticipation. It was all rather a whirlwind of a move and definitely led by God – He answered so many prayers, opened so many doors and allowed many dreams to come true — even down to the timing. [We arrived in time to plant our vegetable and flower gardens – yes, that was a special request of mine!]

After traveling across four provinces with 11 people, a harp and cello on board, along with a rooster and hen combination (which missed the animal trailer, by accident– and wouldn’t you know, the rooster started crowing every single time the baby fell asleep in the vehicle!), two dogs, three bunnies, a trunk filled with shelves duct taped with various plants from home and a trailer full of herbs and goodies — not to mention three freezers full of food! –  from my garden …. we finally made it to our new home.

Words can barely express our excitement as we toppled out of our rather over-crowded family vehicle and ran to the shore to see our new home …

We had purchased our home sight unseen – with the exception of the internet views – and much of the land still held a mysterious air to it. Watching the children run along the shore in utter awe and excitement was a moment I will never forget as a mother. Nine happy children, squealing at the ocean waves, picking up shells and giggling with excitement when they spotted their first jellyfish.

We slept the first night without beds or blankets or pillows, as our home goods would not arrive until the following day, but no one cared. It all felt like a dream come true …

 

 

Our little home, Calico Cove, is even sweeter than I an anticipated – and we immediately felt at home – there have been no regrets about leaving our favorite house in Ontario. Although I absolutely adored our last home – and it will forever hold a special place in my heart – I have realized home truly is where my family is – and we are all together, making more memories under another special little roof in our little house by the sea. [That being said, I will miss our Ontario friends and family and even more, our B.C. family that lives oh so far away!]

 

We still have a century home … but with farmland and we have grand ocean … we have fresh winds and chattering birds and fruit trees and a sparkling pond … we have a cozy kitchen and warm beds to sleep at night … we have our chickens and a large vegetable garden to grow and our animals to raise … we have salty air and beautiful sunsets …

 

… and we have red soil.

Here is a comparison of Ontario dirt against the red soil of the island. It has been rather fun to start our garden with the famous red soil of Prince Edward Island rubbing against our fingers and toes.

It feels a bit like we’ve landed in the Promised Land for our family.

I’m just going to soak it all up and completely enjoy this new chapter of our family’s story.

Won’t you join me in our new island adventures?

 

 

 

June 13, 2021 - 4:31 am

Gigi Liz, it is quite the story! I will see if I can share it. 🙂

June 13, 2021 - 4:31 am

Gigi Hello Renee – thank you! Much love to your family!

June 13, 2021 - 4:31 am

Gigi Thank you, Liette! Missing you! xo

June 13, 2021 - 4:31 am

Gigi Danessa, we need to meet!

June 13, 2021 - 4:30 am

Gigi Thank you for the kind words! We are loving it here and enjoying exploring the island, setting up the homestead and such …. busy times!
Teresa, you must come and visit! Do let me know when you are planning your trip. 🙂

June 9, 2021 - 10:58 am

Teresa Oh Wow!!! That is awesome! Who wouldn’t want to live there! Your home is beautiful and I can’t wait to see inside of it. And all the beauty around it!! So happy for you! Our family is planning a trip there next year!! Hugs sweet friend!

June 4, 2021 - 7:33 pm

Danessa stride I have always wanted to visit P.E.I, but have not had the chance yet. I plan one day to visit. I am a huge fan of Anne of green gables and would love to visit it!
I myself grew up living right next to the ocean, and I know your kids will absolutely love it, there is just something so majestic about it!
If you ever decide to visit my beautiful Newfoundland someday, look me up, would be so nice to meet, have a chat over a cup of ☕️ Tea.
Enjoy every second making new memories! Looking forward to your next post!
I pray for Gods blessings and protection for you and your family on your new adventures

June 4, 2021 - 3:36 pm

Liette Girard Gillian, I’m so happy to see you and family are loving your new home. It looks so nice. Say hi to the family for me. Hopefully I will go visit some day. PEI is beautiful. Love Aunt Liette.

June 4, 2021 - 12:48 pm

Renee Stein I haven’t checked your blog in many months but was over joyed to see of your new adventure on the east coast. I know your heart has been longing for more of a rural simple life for so long now. Plus your adventurous spirit! So happy for all of you. Please say hi to the kids from the Stein boys (and me xo).

June 2, 2021 - 3:44 am

Gigi That was all in God’s answered prayer …. He has provided a way for us to be here!

June 2, 2021 - 3:43 am

Gigi Danessa, I was thinking of you! Maybe one day we can actually meet! Have you ever been to PEI?

June 1, 2021 - 10:11 pm

Liz Curious about how you came to the decision to move to PEI? Was your husband able to get a transfer of job?

June 1, 2021 - 8:54 pm

Danessa stride CONGRATULATIONS!! Your moving closer to my favourite spot on earth, and my home province, Newfoundland lol. So happy for you and your family, you will love it there! I cannot wait for future post to see your new family adventures on the Island! So happy for you!

June 1, 2021 - 12:41 pm

Courtney Hi Gillian – I’m sorry, I should have clarified – I am originally from Cape Breton Island. I am in SW Ontario now, but oh, how miss the sights and smells of the east coast!

June 1, 2021 - 7:35 am

Kim Robbins Gillian, we are so happy for you,Abby and the children. Your home is beautiful, I can’t wait to see the new adventures you have there. God Bless you

June 1, 2021 - 3:45 am

Gigi Courtney – that is wonderful – where out east are you from?

May 31, 2021 - 10:23 pm

Melissa I’m a long time reader but I’ve never commented. I don’t even remember now how I stumbled upon your beautiful blog, but I’ve enjoyed checking in and learning so much from you! What a surprise to read, and yet also not a surprise as this seems like such a perfect place for your family. I’ve always wanted to visit PEI just for the music alone 🙂 Enjoy and I can’t wait to see more of your life there.

May 31, 2021 - 8:44 pm

Brenda (Gillian’s Momma) We are so happy for you and Abby and the children! And of course, the animals too. What a wonderful place to live … Looking forward to hearing about all the new and exciting adventures to come! And we can’t wait to visit Love always, Dad & Mom xo

May 31, 2021 - 7:12 pm

Courtney How wonderful! Congratulations on your move! I am from out east too, and how wonderful is the smell of the salty ocean air. I cannot wait to follow along on your new adventures!

May 31, 2021 - 5:59 pm

Gigi Thank you, Erin Lynn! We are loving it so far! The garden is going and we’re hoping for a great summer, with all our regular chores and canning procedures. I must make myself a new outdoor kitchen, but I have plans … 🙂

May 31, 2021 - 2:56 pm

Erin Lynn Your new home and property look idyllic!❤️Swoon. So gorgeous!!!! May you sense the blessing of the Lord there. Can’t wait to hear more about it !!!

May 31, 2021 - 11:17 am

Tara Amazing!!! What a move! Does this mean your hubby has retired?

May 30, 2021 - 8:22 pm

Rachel It looks beautiful and like it fits you well! How dreamy! Hoping to hear more about how you make it “yours” and perhaps a little more about how/why you ended up there?

May 30, 2021 - 3:31 am

Gigi Laura, hello! A letter is on it’s way to you! It’s ocean front, but you have to walk 18 acres to get to the ocean – so we own the ocean front, but there’s farmland in between. To me, that is just fine as it is a glorious walk through the field, past our pond and trees, to the ocean… yes, Praise God!

May 30, 2021 - 12:09 am

Rebecca Oh my goodness!!!!!!! How exciting!!!!!!! I can’t wait to see more photos of your adorable cottage!!!!

May 29, 2021 - 10:51 pm

Laura Jeanne Oh, Gillian! This post brought tears to my eyes because I am so happy for you. Your new home is adorable, and knowing you, you will soon make the inside as adorable as the outside. 🙂 I’m so glad to hear that everything has gone so well for you and that the children are happy in their new home. Do you really mean to say that your new place is right on the ocean? How amazing. I look forward to seeing more of your homestead in posts to come! Praise God!

May 29, 2021 - 10:07 pm

Lillibeth Humphrey Congratulations! How exciting! What an adventure! And a pretty house:) I am so happy for your family:)

May 29, 2021 - 9:28 pm

Lynnea Dear Gigi,
How wonderful and exciting for you and your family! The house and area look so beautiful and inviting! I will surely join you on your new island adventures and, as always, look forward to each and every post!
With happiness for you and prayers for your settling in,
❤️ Lynnea

May 29, 2021 - 9:18 pm

Lynnea How wonderful and exciting for you and your family! The house, water and area all look so beautiful and inviting! I will surely join you on your new island adventures and, as always, look forward to every post! 🙂
So happy for you, Gigi, and your lovely family ~
~ with love in Christ ~ Lynnea

Raising Up Esthers & Daniels

“Children become what you raise them to become.
You cannot determine their salvation; you don’t have that much responsibility,
but neither can you fatalistically ignore your responsibility and say
‘Oh well, God’s going to do what he’s going to do” …
because God does His work through instruments —
and parents are those instruments.

Train your child to honour you and obey you. Life is deadly dangerous to children.
If they get to the age where they become accountable to God
and they haven’t been parented in the instruction and discipline in things of the Lord,
then life becomes even more dangerous.”
– John MacArthur

 

 

“This is a hard time to be a pastor,” said my 14 year old, as she set the table for dinner, as she pondered some current events regarding Christian pastors in North America.

[Mothers, don’t you find the best opportunity to just chat and hear what is going on in your children’s mind and hearts through the mundane tasks of life? You don’t need to go out on special dates … you just need to be available for when they are ready to open up to you and talk. Be around, mothers. Be present.]

 

“It reminds me of John Paton’s story,” she said, relating the historical tale of the dedicated missionary, the eldest of 11 children in the 1800s.

I nodded, as I strained the potatoes for dinner. Yes, we certainly have had it easy for so long. Christ-followers are so comfortable in our fancy and temperature controlled churches, lovely, ear-pleasing worship with smooth music and well-led songs … but, are believers ready for a true test of faith? Collective worshiping with the saints has been a challenge for the past year in our area, but through all of this, we have seen that the church building does not contain or make up the church body. The church body is not a building, but a unified group of believers, willing to follow Jesus no matter the cost.

 

Heavy thoughts have been in my mind for the past year. How much do children need to know about world-wide events? How much do I tell the older ones, without taking a sweet childhood away from the little ones?

My husband and I are doing our best to keep the world out of our home – to have peace, good times and memories made, a regular home life. However, we are aware of the current events, the ‘war’, the church’s struggles right now. We do need need to fear the future; we need to trust in our Holy Father.

I have met some families who are frightened to have babies in this current time. To this I would say, what if Moses’ mother decided she should not have a baby during their enslavement to the Egyptians? She did not allow fear to hold her back- her baby boy was saved and become the Deliverer of the enslaved Hebrews. Yes, I am sure you know the story.

And let us remember Esther … she was a Israelite living under a corrupt government, raised for “such a time as this” …  a young woman who did not shirk her duty to God and stood up against schemes of death.

 

And where would we be without the strong and bold historical story of Daniel, that young inspiring boy, taken captive … living life under the a godless reign … standing up for what he believed, even in the face of death.

All those little fresh faces, curious minds brimming with questions, eager little minds – they were made for such a time as this. It is very important, as parents, to ensure we are filling their minds with Scripture, godly morals and the knowledge of when to stand and for what to stand. In the past, I have encouraged the children to ‘pick every bean in the garden’ as if it were the Great Depression. I have always told them to memorize as much Scripture as they can as one day, they may have Scripture taken from them. Let’s store up as much Scripture and Biblical teaching as possible in their fresh, lovely minds.

 

Do not be afraid to raise children for God. Do not fear bringing a baby into this world. Instead, be encouraged. God has each little one planned. We, as parents, were called to raise up these particular children at this particular time in history. Our children were destined by God to live in this time.

What an incredible and weighty honour to raise up Esthers and Daniels for the King.

 

May 14, 2021 - 8:39 am

Robyne Puckridge Hello Gillian, I love your website and pics and stories about your Chritian home. I have two children aged twelve and sixteen, and I di tell them and world events and how they fit into God’s plan and prophesies in the Bible. I am convinced that the world scene is set soon for Christ’s return, and His word says there are goings to be wars etc. I don’t want to alarm them, but I think they need to know such things will come to pass. Of course I only divulge what I think they can grasp at their given ages. regards Robyne from Aus.

May 13, 2021 - 11:44 pm

Monica Dear friend, how wonderful this post is and so timely. I admit my heart has been fearful lately and I have thought about my children and the future. But, yes, MOSES. And ESTHER. Wonderful! So encouraging. And just remembering that we (and our children) are not of this world. This is so temporary. It is crucial to hold onto something during this time. A piece of scripture. A song. A thought. Something that will keep us from being so afraid. Great post.

I loved the cuties in the pictures. Love to you.

May 13, 2021 - 11:24 pm

Regina I love this post. I get irritated with people who say is “irresponsible” to be pregnant during the pandemic. If I were 30 year younger I would love to bring a baby into this world and laugh at the naysayers!

May 12, 2021 - 8:43 am

Laura Jeanne Gillian, I was delighted to get onto my computer this morning and see you had a brand new post, but I was even more pleased when I read it – what an excellent message for today. Amen and amen. I’m taking it to heart and I will be sure to find a new scripture to help my children memorize today.

As an aside, the photo of Luther gazing at the chick is too precious for words. 🙂

You are all in my prayers! <3

The Sunshine along the Fence

“Take a wood-side spring outing …
your children [will] discover the magic of crocus, snowdrop, promise and catkin;
you will be charmed that old-fashioned childhood friends are still the best.”
 ~ Mrs. Sharps’s Traditions

 

 

With her little furry kitten gripped tightly in her hands, and a basket for collecting pretty flowers, my youngest daughter skipped down to the front of the yard for some birthday photos. The weather was chilly – but she did not mind (my warm-blooded daughter – who can sleep with no blankets!).

Now, where several Autumn’s ago, her big sisters had planted some brown bulbs in hopes of future springs, there is a cheerful and bright patch of sunny daffodils lining the fence. Such cheery little souls, these flowers are! I have never truly appreciated daffodils until the last few years – now my little flower-senses just adore these optimistic and hopeful bulbs, beckoning the slow warmth of spring in our area.

This week, our littlest girl, Lavender, had a birthday – we celebrated her day with cake and a trip to the grandparents for a pancake breakfast. She was sent parcels in the mail by her other grandparents and had the privilege of skipping chores for the entire day- along with choosing the weekly family night movie (which she picked The Andy Griffith Show – a family favourite).

 

Life is the greatest gift that could ever be conceived …
A daffodil pushing up through the dark earth to the spring,
knowing somehow deep in its roots that spring and light and sunshine will come,
has… courage and  knowledge of the value of life…

~ M. L’Engle

 

 

This lovely little lady … our sixth daughter – bright, courageous, friendly and chipper … much like the darling daffodils that line the old fence … brings many days of sunshine into our family life!

Lavender, Happy Birthday, darling. You are a flower in our life! We love you! xxoo

 

 

 

P.S. Have you missed me? My card-reader broke and I was delayed in writing, waiting for a card reader. Thankfully, it is working now. Lord willing, I can catch up on some missing posts – including our baby’s first birthday. My, how time rushes by! I hope you are doing well and enjoying the blissfully new days of the April season.

April 30, 2021 - 6:44 am

Katie Taylor Beautiful! Happy birthday Lavender, from all us here in NZ 🙂
We’ve never seen the Andy Griffin Show before, looking forward to having a watch of it! We all now love “seven brides for seven brothers”.
It’s very hard to find anything much to watch these days, would love if you shared any more of your family’s favourite shows/movies 🙂
Love and blessings,
Katie

April 27, 2021 - 12:51 pm

Kristal What a wonderful birthday! Looking forward to seeing more of your bright and cheerful posts!

April 25, 2021 - 1:09 am

Rachel So good to have you back! Happy Birthday to both your precious little ones. Thank you for this bright spot of warmth and inspiration on the web.❤

April 24, 2021 - 10:25 pm

Teresa @ SF Happy Birthday Lavender! I remember when you were born! Yes, I have missed your sweet post ~ Welcome back!!

April 24, 2021 - 6:53 pm

Lynnea It’s always a pleasure visiting you here! I love reading your writings and seeing your photos. These pictures showing the tenderness and gentleness of your lovely “birthday girl” with her kitty are very heartwarming!
I love daffodils, too…our little patch of them just recently burst open – so beautiful!

April 19, 2021 - 3:05 pm

Regina Happy birthday to both your sweet blessings. I can’t believe your baby boy is a year. It doesn’t seem that long ago.

April 18, 2021 - 1:51 pm

Debby in Kansas USA Glad to see you back, and with such darling pictures.
Daffodils have always been a favorite of mine. Not only are they cheerful, they smell so good! I didn’t get many this year. I think they need to be divided. First thing on the fall list!

April 17, 2021 - 7:34 pm

Annie Lovely words, and happy birthday to your sweet daughter! I have indeed missed hearing from you – I am glad that all is well!