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  • Welcome to the Gigi Blog!

    Mother to six Little Women and Two Little Men. Married to a Happy Mortician. Caretaker to goats, chickens and many, MANY bunnies. Photographer. Homeschooler. Lover of Jesus, coffee & tea and all things pink & vintage.

A Christian Home

In a world of darkness, let us be the light.
We’re certainly not perfect … but we are aiming for this:

“O give us homes built firm upon the Saviour,
Where Christ is Head, and Counsellor and Guide;
Where ev’ry child is taught His love and favor
And gives his heart to Christ, the crucified:
How sweet to know that tho’ his footsteps waver
His faithful Lord is walking by his side!

O give us homes with godly fathers, mothers,
Who always place their hope and trust in Him;
Whose tender patience turmoil never bothers,
Whose calm and courage trouble cannot dim;
A home where each finds joy in serving others,
And love still shines, tho’ days be dark and grim.

 

 

 

O give us homes where Christ is Lord and Master,
The Bible read, the precious hymns still sung;
Where prayer comes first in peace or in disaster,
And praise is natural speech to ev’ry tongue;
Where mountains move before a faith that’s vaster,
And Christ sufficient is for old and young.

O Lord, our God, our homes are Thine forever!
We trust to Thee their problems, toil, and care;
Their bonds of love no enemy can sever
If Thou art always Lord and Master there:
Be Thou the center of our least endeavor:
Be Thou our Guest, our hearts and homes to share.”

 

March 20, 2023 - 6:21 am

Mom (Gigi’s Momma) I love this poem. So beautiful and true! xoxo

March 18, 2023 - 7:53 pm

Rachel Such a beautiful family picture and song!

March 15, 2023 - 8:33 pm

Gigi Thank you, Danessa! Hope you are enjoying these last few weeks of winter … spring will be here soon!

March 15, 2023 - 8:32 pm

Gigi Laura, thank you, sweet friend. Did you receive my note in the mail?

March 15, 2023 - 8:26 pm

Laura Jeanne Gillian, what a beautiful, beautiful photo! I am so happy that your family exists as a bright light shining in the darkness of this world. God bless you. <3

March 15, 2023 - 7:37 pm

Danessa stride What a lovely family, your girls have turned into beautiful ladies! Blessings to you and your family.

March 15, 2023 - 1:55 am

Mom Oh my heart is so full

March 14, 2023 - 6:11 pm

Gigi P.S. Erin, these dresses are from Amazon … but if you are in the U.S., you have a much better selection than us poor Canadians! It is very hard to find good dresses here. I wish I could order from the states but crossing the border makes the dresses way too expensive for us.

March 14, 2023 - 6:09 pm

Gigi Erin, you are so right. Today’s world is not very feminine for girls and women. In fact, you cannot tell the difference between boys and girls sometimes in their clothing choices. Dressing femininely is something I love! We have chosen to wear dresses from the beginning of childhood (when my eldest was about 6 years old); the girls understand why it is important for them to dress differently than boys because we have talked about it from the beginning. While the older girls could very easily dress like the rest of the world, they choose to dress this way and I am grateful! I’m one to start things with gusto 🙂 … so when I decided to get rid of pants those many years ago, I found it very easy to just start fresh with skirts and dresses. I wouldn’t go back – I love wearing dresses!

March 14, 2023 - 4:46 pm

Kristal Such a beautiful family photo!

March 13, 2023 - 10:57 pm

Erin Lynn You have the most amazing family photos!!! The girls dresses are all lovely! Where in the world do you find such gloriously feminine clothing? And how do you get your daughters on board with dressing more femininely in todays jeans, tshirts, and leggings world without mandating? You are to be commended.

March 13, 2023 - 8:43 am

Mrs. White The quote you shared is inspiring and lovely. You have such a beautiful home and family. Peace be upon your house and blessings from our dear Lord.

March 13, 2023 - 8:40 am

Monica One of my favorite families in the world! I love this poem, it reflects exactly how I feel about my family as well. I love this beautiful picture of your precious family. Look how handsome the boys are and growing oh so big!

A Little Life

“The mother has then so much in her power
that she can not only determine to a great extend what kind of infancy the child shall have,
but also whether her own duties therein shall be heavy or light.

 

{preparing dinner before 8:30 a.m. in the morning;
this daily habit makes my day run so much more smoothly}

{Lariah is held and loved by so many!}


By attending strictly to her own health, adhering to natural laws,
living simply and wholesomely, she can alsmost ensure the bodily health of the child;

{bread dough rising on my Hoosier}


and by keeping her mind calm and even, avoiding worry, and cultivating cheerfulness and contentment, she thus moulds the disposition of the child to a far greater extend than she dreams of.

{a flight of fancy, making cupcakes one afternoon for the little ones}

The woman who lives in a condition of perpetual nervous excitement and worry
before the birth of her child, who is fretful, complaining, impatient of the discomfort of her condition, need not be much surprised if her baby be fretful and difficult to rear. 

{Lavender, holding her little sister while reading to mommy in the quiet of my bedroom}

 

It is not too much to ask from thoughtful Christian women,
who at heart feel their responsibility and their high privilege, than nothing shall be lacking on their part to make the child given to them by God a moral, mental, and physical success.

{dressed for church; a beautiful hand knit sweater from my sweet neighbour!}

{10 babies and this will never get old to me! Thank you, Lord, for my blessings!}


We are careful in all other departments of life to try and obtain the best — why not here?
Is the human life less precious, human souls of less account, than merchandise?”

~ Courtship, Marriage and the Gentle Art of Home-Making
1894

 

{a blissful moment of Luther and Lariah napping together in my room}

March 9, 2023 - 4:52 am

Gigi Thank you, Teresa! (hugs)

March 7, 2023 - 11:14 pm

Teresa I found your lovely, inspiring blog when you was expecting Lavender ~ my how she has grown. I can not get over how alert the baby is now, such beautiful bright eyes. Gigi, keep posting ~ you are helping so many mothers,wives and homes. I hope one day we will get to meet in person…take care sweet friend.

March 3, 2023 - 11:36 pm

Rachel Thank you for the corner of sweetness you are in this world! Appreciate your blog and the important values you cherish and seek to uphold.

March 1, 2023 - 1:27 pm

Jen Lariah looks like Lyla to me!!So precious! These photos are so beautiful.

February 28, 2023 - 7:49 pm

Gigi Emily, congratulations on our new little baby boy! What a precious chapter of life for you! Enjoy every moment.

February 28, 2023 - 5:48 pm

Emily Robinson Thank you so much for your lovely post. Im 21 and have a 5 week old baby boy (my first) and your posts are so encouraging. Someday I’d love to have a family and home like yours!

February 28, 2023 - 12:40 pm

Gigi Mrs. White, thank you.You have been an encouragement to me!

February 28, 2023 - 12:39 pm

Gigi Michelle, you are so kind. Simple living is challenging in this high tech, fast paced world.

February 28, 2023 - 10:51 am

Michelle Thank you for encouraging my heart and life…as you always do with you posts…way of living!! You and your family are such blessings. I find myself going back and reading your posts, as they are continual help and encouragement for me as a wife, mother, keeper of my home, teacher. I really appreciate your simple living. I feel like I need so much of this in my life. Thank you! Thank you!

February 28, 2023 - 8:06 am

Mrs. White This is so peaceful, encouraging, and inspiring. You present a lovely, old fashioned home as something beautiful and worth cultivating. God bless you and your family!

February 28, 2023 - 3:26 am

Ruthie Dear Gigi, What a wonderful job you’re doing rearing the next generation of mothers and fathers…mommas that will love the blessings God gives them…fathers who will care for and protect their families. Just beautiful ❤️ Ruthie

Don’t Blink…

Mother, oh mother, come shake out your cloth!
Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
Hang out the washing and butter the bread,
Sew on a button and make up a bed.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking!

Oh, cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
But children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust, go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby. Babies don’t keep.
-Babies Don’t Keep {Nancy Holzman}

 

 

 

Sometimes I feel I cannot even blink or else I will miss all the goodness and sweetness that is showered upon me … I know this time as a family time goes by so quickly … and the magic or my ordinary days – filled with newborn snuggles, meal makings, laundry piles, snowy boots and homeschooling are so special … each day holds little moments of wonder and love, trials and challenges, but then blessings and well, wonderful-ness.

 

Since becoming a wife and mother many years ago, the world and all its shiny trappings has slowly faded into the background and my home and family life has come into clear focus.

Quite simply, it was only yesterday that my eldest child was the little baby in arms – and now, nearly 19 years later, we have a house full of little and middle and big children-blessings.  There is not mistaking that it is a busy, sometimes exhausting, life – however, don’t wish these days away, fellow mother, as they slowly and eventually slip away like pearls on a broken string …

Now with seven daughters and three little boys under our roof, our hands and hearts are truly full.

“The family is the first essential cell of human society.” –Pope John XXIII

This time around, I don’t need anyone to remind me how special it is to have a newborn to hold – or to watch your children love on the newest member of the family. There are never enough hours in the day to make the rounds of baby-holding .. did everyone get a chance to cuddle Lariah?

 

I’m holding tight to these special-yet-ordinary days and loving the non-ordinary life that the Lord has given us.

 

 

 

January 20, 2023 - 3:35 pm

Gigi Thank you, Mel!! So good to hear from you!

January 20, 2023 - 2:43 pm

Melanie Waldner OMG Congrats!!! Baby #10! Amazing! She’s beautiful! All the best to you and your family Gillian! Give her a few extra cuddles!

January 19, 2023 - 1:02 am

Mom One more person will be there soon, to cuddle Lariah! Can’t wait xo

My Ministry

“Would you love to be involved in a world-changing ministry?
Do you want to feel useful and do something that impacts society?

 

I want to encourage you, mother, that as you embrace your calling of motherhood to receive the babies
God wants to give you and raise them to contend for the faith and stand undaunted against the enemy,
that you are involved in a world-influencing ministry!

The greatest threat to the progressives and socialists are strong godly families who are raising children
who will stand unflinching against the devil’s deceptions.
They are a force to be reckoned with.
You will face disappointments and challenges, but never give up!
The cost is too great!
– Nancy Campbell

Ladies, I am truly savouring these early baby days … resting as much as I can, holding my baby close, breathing in her sweetness. With every new baby, I am amazed at how my heart can grow with more love. I would give up all worldly gain to embrace this role as a simple mother, backed by Heaven, training and raising up little ones for the Kingdom.

 

Never let the world convince you to follow its path. I have had many people question why we have had so many children – let’s just say these children are GIFTS from God and I do not take them for granted. I have had some suggest I am at a “good age” to stop having babies – how far we have come for the natural ways. When did it become so ‘strange’ to have a large family? And why? The world would have you stop having babies at a certain age and interrupt God’s plans for your family.

God’s ways are so much more rewarding!

And this little baby, my friends, is filling my heart with more joy than I can express …

 

 

 

 

He maketh the barren woman to keep house,
and to be a joyful mother of children.
Praise ye the Lord.
Psalm 113:9

January 13, 2023 - 2:52 pm

Michelle Amen and Amen!! Thank you for sharing and your continuing encouragement! Beautiful family!

January 12, 2023 - 3:27 am

Linda Congratulations Gigi and family, I heartily agree there is no greater joy than the gift of a child. Many blessings to you and your new little one ~ Linda

January 10, 2023 - 10:36 am

miriam stoltzfoos I sure will!

January 9, 2023 - 3:31 pm

Gigi Yes — Heaven! This world is only temporary …
I’d love to meet you! Let me know if you ever come this way. 🙂

January 9, 2023 - 9:06 am

miriam stoltzfoos Thank you! Gigi. I feel like the Lord healed me from the pain and sorrow of loss and it’s made me long for heaven more, as I can’t wait to meet all of my children in heaven and hear all their stories.
It’s on my bucket list to visit Prince Edward Island sometime. If we do I’d love to meet you and your family. Your blog is one of my very favorites.

January 8, 2023 - 3:37 pm

Gigi Miriam, your story really touched my heart; one of sadness and hope. I’m so glad to hear the Lord blessed you with your daughter, Tatiyana! And I’m so happy that you are living out motherhood with joy … it must have been heart breaking to have so many losses. I can only imagine how helpless you must have felt to lose so much …
My prayers are with you as you journey through motherhood!

January 7, 2023 - 6:13 pm

miriam stoltzfoos Your new baby is beautiful. Congratulations to you and your husband for having 10 children.
I was 28 when I got married and I knew I wanted at least 4 children. When I got pregnant the first time I was more excited about it then I had ever been about anything before. To my disappointment I soon miscarried. I grieved more for that baby then I expected. A few month later I got pregnant again. This time I wasn’t as excited though. At about 8 wks. I miscarried again. A few months later the same thing happened and so on for years. I took long breaks from trying to conceive because of it and studied on what could be the cause, had lots of prayer at church about it. My husband and I fasted and prayed about it many times. I did carry one baby 4 months and that one tested positive with a chromosome abnormality that’s not generational.
Finally at the age of 40 we decided to become foster parents and our first placement was a beautiful little 4lb. 10 oz. baby girl named Tatiyana and we ended up adopting her and she is now 6 yrs. old, Finally I feel like I’m living my dream of being a full time stay at home mom. She has brought so much joy to our family. Because of what I experienced I encourage anyone that can, to have a big family. I hope and pray that my daughter can marry a godly man fairly young and have a big family of her own.
It sounds like you embrace all your children to the fullest
which is great to hear. So many of my friends plan their babies for no reason other than, Convenience? So they have more time to enjoy each one? etc.

January 6, 2023 - 2:27 pm

Erin Lynn People can be very unkind about new pregnancies with many children. I had many people act like they felt sorry for me or not say anything at all with my last little one in October. In fact, I began avoiding people at church, and would leave as soon as the closing prayer was said. I know this was not a healthy way to handle it, but I wasn’t sure what to do. I didn’t want to act defensive or sad about their response. Well, once the baby was born, everyone acted happy again, so the issue did resolve itself. Your new daughter is another beauty!!! I hope you are healing and enjoying the newborn days.

January 6, 2023 - 11:46 am

Gigi Ruthie, I understand – the world, even the church’s view, is skewed when it comes to Biblical womanhood. We must keep our eyes on the Heavenly purpose and try to not become distracted or discouraged. {{Hugs!!}}

January 6, 2023 - 9:08 am

Ruthie Just an afterthought… I love your contentment and commitment to motherhood. For those of us who are likeminded, it’s refreshing to have each other on this blog. I sometimes feel a bit battered with the ‘well intentioned’ things other people say about my choice to be a stay at home mother, even when my homeschooling years are done. They assume that I (and my daughter) will get jobs outside the home now. It doesn’t mean that we’re lazy or trying to be a burden to our menfolk, but there’s still much to be done in our home. (Plus, we’re praying about getting chickens. Eek!) So, I love coming here and reading about biblical womanhood. It’s very much appreciated.

January 6, 2023 - 3:05 am

Ruthie Oh Gillian! Your beautiful new baby girl!(hugs) I am so thrilled for you and your family! Your 10th blessing from the Lord… Congratulations on a safe & happy delivery.
Love,
Ruthie

January 5, 2023 - 6:45 pm

Teresa So, true my friend. Beautifully written and beautiful photos. I have cherished all my years as a stay at home mom. Yes,my children is my world. To raise them for the kingdom of heaven is our role as a parent. I recently shared with a young mom, one of the most important thing is to have home time, it is the best thing you can give your children. They needs home time to play with their toys, discover nature in their backyard, time in your lap with a good book to read,these are the best of time. To be careful not to drag them here and there all the time…HOME is the sweetest place to raise your children and in church of course. Hugs to you ~

January 5, 2023 - 12:15 pm

Kristal This is so wise and encouraging. During my early twenties, I unfortunately fell under the wrong type of encouragement. The books I was consuming often talked about children being a blessing, but also “it’s ok to covet naptimes”, “it’s ok to need a mom timeout”, “it’s ok to put your kids in front of a screen for 30 minutes so you can have a rest”, and “it’s ok to hide in your bathroom to have a piece of chocolate”. While I won’t pretend motherhood is easy, children are sinners just like us, and need constant parenting. However, I feel like this instilled the wrong message inside of me. It made me to feel like young children are a burden and it’s ok to have pity on myself when I was tired. I noticed my conversations with other moms reflected that. The Lord moved in me quickly, but many years ago my heart changed. I never saw children as a burden, but I no longer talked as if my children were bothering me and I just needed time to myself. When my friends share their pregnancies with me, I let them know how wonderful it is, without chiming in with, oh another little one to be underfoot. We are moms, we already know this! What we need is more seasoned moms to share the joys of motherhood, even in the rough seasons. My oldest is turning 13, and I know just how quickly our times with our children slip by (as I know you do as well). I know with my own children I will encourage them to be parents and mothers and to enjoy all that the Lord gives them. Anyways, sorry for the winded message. Your post spoke to me. 🙂

January 4, 2023 - 6:56 am

Gigi Cathy, so good to hear from you! I hope you are doing well. Monica, yes, I agree with everything you said … {hugs!}

January 3, 2023 - 11:20 pm

Mom Oh my heart xo I will be there soon to hold Loriah and enjoy her newborns. Love you xo

January 3, 2023 - 5:40 pm

Monica Lovely, both of you! ❤️ Yes, we have come so far from what is natural and good and pure and a BLESSING. Even my SIL (who is not religious) who is an OB said you are only too old to have children when your body quits having them. Just a nice perspective to have. My worst baby “congratulations” is when people ask if we are done. As if, “this baby is nice and all but don’t you think this should be it?” Maybe some don’t mean that but it seems to be the “going comment”.

One of the best comments I’ve ever received was, “you and Bradley should have more children. The world needs more children like yours in it.” Praise the Lord for comments like that! If Christian people had not quit having children then no doubt our world would be exploding for Christ.

I do feel compassion for the mothers who can’t have more but want more. I do believe there is a peace from the Lord for them that He is able to give. Usually those women are extra special blessings to moms of many children in so many ways! They have the hearts of large family mothers.

Love to you, Gillian and Lariah!

January 3, 2023 - 4:15 pm

Cathy Bray She is so beautiful! Congratulations 🙂

January 2, 2023 - 6:15 pm

Gigi Regina, I am so sorry – I know you love your children and being a mother and wife! God bless you!

January 2, 2023 - 4:35 pm

Regina Shea Amen! I would give anything to be able to birth more babies but a possibly unnecessary hysterectomy when I was 41 took away that chance.

A Heritage from the Lord

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
The fruit of the womb is a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
So are the children of one’s youth.
 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;
They shall not be ashamed,
But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.

Psalm 127:3-5

 

Whilst the world tumbles between holidays and the new year, my days are quiet (quiet as they can be with 12 people in the house!) and restful …  filled with precious newborn sighs, squeaks and tiny cries. Snuggled in my arms, our newest baby, Lariah, fills my heart with complete joy. To be blessed again with a baby from the Lord, this gift, I will never for granted.

I’m so thankful for the day the Lord opened my eyes to what it really means to say “Children are blessing from the Lord.”

 

Abby & I are blessed.

Not in worldly ways, not in personal gain, but in the children that the Lord has given us.

Tomorrow is Sunday, the first day of 2023. I begin a new year with 10 beautiful children and a husband that loves me. What more could I ask for?

 

 

I am hoping to post a little story about her birth soon. There are little snippets of time in which I can write down some details. I will share soon.

January 2, 2023 - 3:24 am

Rebecca Oh my goodness I missed this!! I kept checking your blog but I got busy the week of Christmas! Congratulations!!! Can’t wait to hear more about her arrival! Another girl, so fun!!!

January 2, 2023 - 12:47 am

Regina Shea She has the most kissable cheeks!

January 1, 2023 - 5:56 am

Gigi Thank you, Robyn!

January 1, 2023 - 5:55 am

Gigi Thank you, Teresa! You are so sweet! Happy New Year!

January 1, 2023 - 3:55 am

Robyne Puckridge Bliss!! Congratulations to you and your precious ones.

January 1, 2023 - 12:03 am

Teresa What a wonderful Christmas you had holding a new baby girl- she is just perfect! So, happy for you all! I so enjoyed your blog – keep writing , for you are an encouragement to us all! Hugs!

December 31, 2022 - 11:55 pm

Teresa Aw, she is beautiful, congratulations to all of you! Children are a blessing and a gift from our Lord; indeed! I am so very happy for all of you! Rest my friend!