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    Mother to six Little Women and Two Little Men. Married to a Happy Mortician. Caretaker to goats, chickens and many, MANY bunnies. Photographer. Homeschooler. Lover of Jesus, coffee & tea and all things pink & vintage.

Now Is the Time – Get Your House in Order

“It has occurred to me that I am only doing what every housewife did as a matter of course only a generation or two ago.
She always preserved food for the coming year as it came into season and bulk-purchased staples such as sugar and vinegar.
Our grandmothers did this not because they were paranoid, isolated survivalists,
but rather because they had learned from experience that blizzards, crop failures, and epidemics happened. The prudent, prepared household prevailed.
Others did not.
As the winter storms howl outside my window and the political, economic, and ecological news goes from bad to worse, I sleep well, knowing I can care for my family during times of plenty and times of want.”
by Kathy Harrison

 

The weather was cooler this week, topped with many rainy days — thus giving us Gauthier girls a chance to dust off the pressure canning and begin our stock up for the Provision Room.

If you have been reading this blog for a while, you will know that every summer and fall, the girls and I work together to fill our pantry and Provision Room. We grow a large garden all summer long and preserve as much as possible. We still make mistakes and are learning but we’re definitely becoming accustomed to what is needed to feed our family throughout the year.

{Our 2023 garden}

{We planted twice as much corn as last year}

{adding fruit bushes to the property}

 

We raise our own meat birds (chicken) for the freezer and we have a cow we grow out for beef. We have a dairy cow, which is amazing and one of the biggest blessings to our little homestead. We have fresh milk every day, butter and more. We have our garden full of vegetables and we work hard to fill our Provision Room, limited the need for the grocery store throughout the year. Yes, we do still buy from the grocery stores, but with our gardens and home grown meats, we are certainly requiring the store less than a regular family.

 

This week, we pressure canned beef chilli, chicken chilli and spiced chicken, along with making dilly beans, Dill pickles, bread and butter pickles and blueberry jam.

If we have learned anything over the past few years with the state of the world, we cannot depend on anyone else – the stores, the farmers, the government –  to feed our family.  Being prepared is a necessity for us. The words “food shortages” are not something I thought I would ever hear in my parenting journey but they certainly were something we did see over the past two years.  If you do not have the feeling to get your house in order right now, then you are asleep!

Every day, there is a new topic under world events that could make you shiver.

However, we are not to live in fear – but to live in faith and to be wise. And to teach our children so they will one day have the same skills …

 

“Go to the ant, you sluggard;
    consider its ways and be wise!
It has no commander,
    no overseer or ruler,
yet it stores its provisions in summer
    and gathers its food at harvest.

How long will you lie there, you sluggard?
    When will you get up from your sleep?
10 A little sleep, a little slumber,
    a little folding of the hands to rest—
11 and poverty will come on you like a thief
    and scarcity like an armed man.”
~ Proverbs

[My children and I have this passage of Scripture memorized and we recite it to each other, if ever feel lazy and not willing to work hard during the daytime. 🙂 ]

It’s very easy to say, “Oh, well, it’s all too much work, I can just buy it at the store, buy it from the market, etc. ” However, we’re missing out on a few facts … 1) it’s healthier grown at home 2) you are learning a skill and teaching it to your children and 3) it is providing food security that you cannot receive elsewhere.

I do remember my grandma, who is currently 85, telling me “Anyone can grow potatoes! Just stick it in the ground and it will grow!” and she was truly right. There’s no excuse to not at least try to grown some food. And if you do not have the energy to grow too much, you will need to find an organic farmer that you can rely on to provide your food for your own provision room.

And then get preserving, stocking up, filling your freezing and learn how to can! We are so blessed to have an organic farmer down the road from us, who has indeed helped us with many things – eggs when our chickens would not lay and meat when we ran out – but we still work on raising and providing our own food, as much as possible.

 

 

Stock up. Now is the time. As I have heard it said:

Pray up and prep up.

“Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come.”
~ Proverbs 31:25
August 21, 2023 - 12:56 pm

Gigi You are so blessed to have a double harvest, Monica! I know it is a lot of work but a great asset! Yes, the produce is a busy time right now! 🙂

August 21, 2023 - 11:20 am

Monica Hello, friend…this is a very good blog post and so important for us to do what it says. I’ve purposed to plant something every day. Put some kind of seeds in the ground somewhere. This is a nice challenge for me and very doable. Looks like the harvest has exploded, right after our visit. Love, Monica

August 21, 2023 - 6:54 am

Gigi You can do raw meat, if you want, but I often cook it. The vegetables can be cooked or raw, as well! Easy!

August 21, 2023 - 6:36 am

Ruthie Hi again Yes, we would love to come for a visit to see you all! Thankyou
Apple season isn’t here for us either. We just noticed a tree that was already dropping apples. We cut one open, saw it had black seeds, and decided to use them.
I do need to learn how to make those delicious looking soups! Are your meats and veggies cooked or raw before you put them in the canner?

August 19, 2023 - 7:22 pm

Gigi Hello Ruthie, so good to hear from you!
That is great that you are canning apple pie filling. Are you in apple season already? We are not quite there yet, but it’s one of my favourite seasons!
You are so right – they were truly hard workers. I have high admiration for those amazing ladies!
P.S. (We were hoping you could visit sometime! Hugs to you!

August 19, 2023 - 2:39 pm

Ruthie Hello Gigi! As Megan & I were trying to can apple pie filling, a new recipe for us, we were talking about something very similar. The ladies in the olden days must have had really good knife skills for all the preserving they had to do. Her thoughts tended toward how hard their lives must have been, especially without bags of flour and even the most basic of things we take for granted.
We harvested our garlic late & after a wet summer, found unwanted guests. We still have some, but not as much as we had hoped. Still learning & trying new things.
Always love seeing & hearing about your family.
❤️ Ruthie

August 18, 2023 - 11:51 am

Gigi Ana, yes you are right – God gives us wisdom, and we need to apply it. I hope things are going well with your garden. I am happy to hear from you!

August 18, 2023 - 11:50 am

Gigi HI GIGI: WE REALLY LIVE IN DIFFICULT TIMES WHERE THERE ARE SHORTAGES OF FOOD EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD, PRICES INCREASE EVERY WEEK, AND THAT MEANS THAT SOMETIMES THINGS DO NOT GO AS YOU WANT, IN MY COUNTRY THERE IS A BIG PROBLEM OF INFLATION AND FOOD PRICES ARE CONSTANTLY INCREASING, GOD GIVES US THE ABILITY AND WISDOM IN KNOWING HOW TO MANAGE OUR MONEY, BUY ONLY WHAT IS NECESSARY, LEARN MANY SKILLS: SEWING AND MAKING CLOTHES, KNITTING, EMBROIDERY, COOKING FROM SCRATCH, ALL THIS I HAVE LEARNED THROUGHOUT MY 45 YEARS OF MARRIAGE AND 12 CHILDREN WITH MY HUSBAND, BUT I WANT TO CONTINUE LEARNING, START WITH A SMALL GARDEN AND I HOPE SOON OF MANY FRUITS. BLESSINGS FROM BUENOS AIRES AND I HOPE YOU TAKE A TOUR OF MY BLOG.

August 17, 2023 - 10:02 pm

Ana HI GIGI: REALMENTE VIVIMOS EN TIEMPOS DIFICILES DONDE HAY ESCASES DE ALIMENTOS EN TODOS LADOS DEL MUNDO, LOS PRECIOS AUMENTAN CADA SEMANA, Y ESO HACE QUE A VECES LAS COSAS NO SALGAN COMO UNO QUIERE, EN MI PAIS HAY UN GRAN PROBLEMA DE INFLACION Y LOS PRECIOS DE LOS ALIMENTOS AUMENTAN CONSTANTEMENTE, DIOS NOS DA LA CAPACIDAD Y SABIDURIA EN SABER ADMINISTRAR NUESTRO DINERO, COMPRAR SOLO LO NECESARIO, APRENDER MUCHAS HABILIDADES: COSER Y HACER ROPA, TEJER, BORDAR, COCINAR DESDE CERO, TODO ESTO LO HE APRENDIDO A LO LARGO DE MIS 45 AÑOS DE CASADA Y 12 HIJOS JUNTO A MI ESPOSO,PERO QUIERO SEGUIR APRENDIENDO,COMENCE CON UNA PEQUEÑA HUERTA Y ESPERO QUE PRONTO DE MUCHOS FRUTOS. BENDICIONES DESDE BUENOS AIRES Y ESPERO QUE TE DES UNA VUELTA POR MI BLOG.

Your Life at Home

“Love your husband, love your children.

 Stay home.

That’s not an idea I came up with out of my head.

That’s from Titus 2.

Older women are to teach, encourage,

do all that they possibly can

to help the younger women to do these things.

My objective is to simply point you back

to the Word of God.”

-Elisabeth Elliot

 

 

 

 

 

Sitting in the shade of tree in my backyard, I cradled my baby on my lap and listened to the wind whisper gently through the leaves of the maple tree. My 10th baby, Lariah, looked up and with eyes wide with wonder, watched the vibrant green leaves twist and turn, as if dancing in the summer breeze.

A quick flutter of bird’s wings and I watched my baby’s sharp eyes follow a young bird, as it swooped from the branches of the tree to a nearby fence pole.
What a blessing to have a baby in my arms again! This motherhood journey has been so wonderful …

 

 

 

 

Being home, surrounded by my little ones and now my big ones, knowing my husband is working hard to provide for our family, watching the children play and work around our little farm brings me such joy to my heart.  I have learned to love this quiet, simple life at home. I see some younger mothers, run ragged, trying to keep up with homeschooling commitments, social events and even church commitments. To everything there is a season, I say, and during your motherhood season – which, as mine has, may extend quite a long time – your place is at home. Oh, I know it’s not a popular thing to say right now – but it’s true, as it is says so in the Great Book.

 

 

“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine.
They are to teach what is good,
and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5
to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands,
that the word of God may not be reviled.
Titus 2:3-5

 

 

It bring such joy to heart when I heard a young woman looking forward to her future home life with her family- mothers, your home is your sanctuary for your family. Learn to love it, fill your home with beautiful memories, happy times, learning opportunities… the reality of that would be planting a garden with your children, canning and preserving your food together, cleaning and organizing the cupboards (something I must do before school season starts up again!), learning history together, reading fantastic books about missionaries and great heroes of the faith or profound scientists and inventors … teaching your children to read, to play a musical instrument, to sew, quilt, embroider, build machinery, working together in all things.

 

 

There are so many blessings to be gained if you fully embrace your role as a keeper at home. Do not pass your role onto to someone else – no daycare can replace you, no restaurant can fill your kitchen with beautiful food, nobody can clean and take care of your children like you can. You will find so much joy and fulfilment when you learn to love this role as a wife and mother at home.

 

 

 

 

“Oh that God would give every mother a vision of the glory and splendor of the work
that is given to her when a babe is place in her bosom to be nursed and trained!
Could she have but one glimpse in to the future of that life as it reaches on into eternity;
could she look into it’s soul to see its possibilities;
could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility for the training of this child,
for the development of its life,  and for its destiny,

–she would see that in all God’s world there is no other work
so noble and so worthy of her best powers,

and she would commit to no others hands the sacred and holy trust given to her.”
-JR Miller

August 9, 2023 - 1:11 pm

Gigi Teresa, I hope you are having a great summer!

August 9, 2023 - 1:09 pm

Teresa Beautiful words full of wisdom and truth! Have a blessed day sweet friend!

August 7, 2023 - 2:54 pm

Gigi Lynnea,
I love that you enjoyed your home life with your family and made your family feel secure, despite moving often.
I think all mothers will say they have made mistakes and wish things were done a bit differently in some areas. We just keep trying, by the grace of God, to improve and learn and grow.
((hugs))

August 7, 2023 - 2:19 pm

Lynnea Hello! This is so beautiful and encouraging!
I am an older Christian woman, a wife, mother, and nana, and have been a homemaker almost all our married life. It’s what I always wanted to be since a very young girl. We homeschooled our children wanting to give them a stable and secure life as much as we possibly could. (We moved every 3-4 years with my husband’s job.) Our nest has been empty for quite a while and I see mistakes and failures I’ve made and often feel unqualified to give input into the lives of my adult children. I have read in a book written for older women that I had my chance while they were still at home.
Still, I hope and pray to be able to encourage them.
Thank you for all you share~
With love in Christ, Lynnea

Summer Time

All in all, it was a never-to-be-forgotten summer — one of those summers which come seldom into any life, but leave a rich heritage of beautiful memories in their going — one of those summers which, in a fortunate combination of delightful weather, delightful friends and delightful doing, come as near to perfection as anything can come in this world.

Lucy Maud Montgomery
[the beach at the end of our road]
Hello, my friends — it has been a while since I wrote. How is your summer coming along? We have been oh so busy with the gardens (flower and vegetables), the property, animals, our new baby, our little homestead and visiting the sandy red beaches of Prince Edward Island to cool off in between chores. We have had wonderful company during the spring and summer, friends dropping by, relatives and all sorts of lovely visits in between …
God is so good – every time I turn another corner, I see blessings from Him, little gifts that encourage my soul.
This upcoming week we will be sharing time together with our best friends from the United States – with all that has happened over the past few years, having them come to visit us is definitely a gift that we do not take for granted. I am LOVING having a wee baby in my arms again and am trying to soak up as many snuggles as I can, in between weeding sessions in the garden and regular household chores.
I hope to post more soon – just know that life is short here on this earth – make it sweet! … choose to look for the blessings every day, read your Bible, follow God’s word and you will be encouraged and blessed.
July 28, 2023 - 12:13 am

Teresa Gigi, what a beautiful family, I love the picture of you all! Looking forward to your future post! God Bless you all!

July 27, 2023 - 7:56 pm

Gigi Hello Cathy, I will think of a few places for you. Are you looking for food, scenery, arts or – L.M. Montgomery suited places? You can send me an email: Gigigauthier@protonmail.com

July 26, 2023 - 5:16 pm

Cathy Bray Hi Gigi!

We are planning on visiting PEI for the first time in October. Do you have any suggestions on places to visit? 😀

Cathy xo

July 24, 2023 - 5:54 pm

Gigi Mrs. White – thank you! We also have our own little beach on our property – the joys of living on an island! Water everywhere!

July 24, 2023 - 4:24 pm

Mrs. White This is a wonderful picture of your family! What a blessing to have such a beautiful beach near your home. God bless you all!

Unfading Charm

“In the home a woman can bask in the provision and leadership of her husband.
She loses her femininity, her grace, and her peace when she rules her husband.
A truly feminine woman trusts in her husband’s provision and authority.
This does not mean she is a doormat.
God has given women a sphere of leadership, not to rule over her husband,
but to govern the affairs of her home (1 Timothy 5:14).

 

It is her prerogative to efficiently administrate her home and garden.
This is not an insignificant task. It is a full-time career, especially as God blesses the couple with more children.

It is not just loving our children,
but loving and embracing the role of motherhood
that releases us into the joy and glory of our divine career.

 

 

 

Gentleness and meekness are also the inner essence of being female. 1 Peter 3:3-4 (Williams) says, “Your adornments . . . must be of an internal nature, the character concealed in the heart, in the imperishable quality of a quiet and gentle spirit, which is of great value in the sight of God.” These qualities in a female are very precious to the heart of God, and to husbands. In fact, they are a woman’s charm. They are called an “unfading charm.

~Above Rubies, Nancy Campbell

July 4, 2023 - 8:15 am

Robyn So very well written and expressed Gigi. When we embrace this blueprint, we are truly satisfied and content!

Society’s Antidote

“I believe today’s world is hungering to be transformed by the spirit of femininity.
What better antidote for an impersonal and violent society than warm, gentle feminine strength?
What better cure for urban sprawl and trashed out country-sides than a love of beauty and a confidence in one’s ability to make things lovely?
What better hope for a future than a nurturing mother’s heart that is more concerned for the next generations than for its own selfish desires?
All of these qualities – gentle, strength, love of beauty, care and nurturing –
are part of the spirit of femininity.”
-Emilie Barnes,

 

In a world where women are encouraged to be loud and fierce, to step on anyone in the way of self care, to have a feeling of “I deserve better” and “You are enough”,  I want to my raise my daughters to be the exact opposite.

{And ladies, you are not enough – that is not Biblical. We must turn to God for all our help and you cannot get through life without Him. Colossians 2:9-10}

Despite what the world is doing, we are raising counter cultural daughters in our home.

 

It is time for Christian women everywhere to step down – not up – and be the women set out in Biblical standards, to be keepers of our home and loving our families.

“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.”
-Titus 2:1-5

I am working on  training myself – and my daughters – to be soft and feminine, to be the women God has designed us to be … to love our husband, adore our babies, to nurture and tend faithfully to our children, to take care of the home with a cheerful attitude and to be the woman God has designed.

When I was a little girl, there was a beautiful young mother who attended the same church who caught my attention. She was a stay a home mother and was enjoying her role and tasks. She always spoke softly, she wore beautiful (not fancy) feminine dresses, she had a handful of adorable, bouncy children– and when I was blessed enough to babysit for her – I was enthralled with her decorating … pretty colours, florals, delicate details … she seemed the picture of femininity. I saw there was joy in being a mother, there were gentle treasures in being a wife, there were sweet blessings in keeping a home!

 

All these tiny interesting facts remained in my mind, engraving a feminine portrait for me to copy. Of course, I have always loved old fashioned living – and books along the lines of Anne of Green Gables and Polyanna – and therefore, my thinking, as a young girl, was admittedly shaped by reading of such gentle books. Staying home and taking care of my babies and children, tending to my home, was something I knew I would do someday.

Wearing skirts, pretty florals and ribbons was always something I wanted to do – and even if I was teased by others as a young lady, I still managed to look past the mocking and continue on in my journey. For a while, I dressed like the world, but soon found it was not modest, not becoming, and certainly not the style I wanted to train my daughters to wear.

 

And yet while feminity, yes, does come from the outside appearance, it also must radiates from within. If you are hateful, it will show up on your face. If you are bitter, it will change your lovely expression to one of despise. If you are rushed and stressed, it will erase your work of gentle ways. If you are being friendly to someone in person but speaking poorly of them when they leave, all while wearing beautiful feminine clothes, you are not being a godly, beautiful woman.  If you are busy and loud, your flowing dresses and pretty hair will not amount to much.

This is a journey I am on and have by no means reached the end – every day is a new opportunity to embrace my godly calling and erase the ideas of the world’s image of a woman that is constantly portrayed.

 

Embrace your God-given role, ladies!

“At its best, our femininity arises natural, out of who we are,
and finds its natural expression in the way we live our lives and make our homes.
But in our hectic, hard driving society,
it’s easy to lose track of our gentle, feminine side.
The spirit of felinity is something we must nurture ourselves and in our homes,
and celebrate God’s gift to us.”

-Emilie Barnes

 

 

So today … embrace your femininity.

Love your husbands. They work hard for their families.
Raise godly children. They are the hope for our future.
Make your home a happy, beautiful place, a shelter from the dark and weary world.
Spread joy and happiness to everyone you meet in the outside world.
Enjoy the beautiful life God has given you.
Plant flowers and more flowers in your gardens!
Wear beautiful clothes and throw out your sweat pants! Dress up for your family!
Share the love of Jesus, as He is our only true and lasting hope for a lost society.

 

 

 

July 3, 2023 - 7:10 pm

Gigi Mom, I love you!xo Thank you for always encouraging me!

July 3, 2023 - 10:47 am

Mom (Gigi’s Momma) This brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat. But it swells my heart with love and joy!! Gillian, you are truly making a difference in this nasty world. I love the guiding gentle words of encouragement. Mom xoxo

July 1, 2023 - 1:01 pm

Teresa Lovely post on modesty and on the heart. Both are so much needed into days world. I try to raise my daughters this way as well. Lovely photos Gigi, I need to pull out my camera and get back taken pictures ~ My how your new little one is growing. HOW is your garden doing? I hope to visit PEI one day,such a beautiful place. Teresa

June 29, 2023 - 4:22 am

Gigi Michelle, I need constant reminder, as well! (hugs)

June 29, 2023 - 4:21 am

Gigi Hi Annie, that is a good question – I have gone over the ways of how to sit, walk, and talk with the girls (something we review quiet often). We are all learning together. Of course, they are little girls and play and run and have fun, but when it comes time for sitting at church/a gathering with friends, hopefully some of the things we have gone over will come to light for them. We have done a few courses together with some other friends and families; one is the Christian Charm Course (so much fun). We also have a Keepers of the Faith class that we lead in the fall and winter months. I also think it is just a lifestyle that is displayed and shown to them. I am constantly reminding myself on certain standards. Yes, we have set courtship standards … it is new to us so we’re not experts!

June 29, 2023 - 4:18 am

Gigi Monica, you are so right – it is a gift to be a woman! So happy to have others who love to embrace their roles as mothers, wives and keepers of the home. xo

June 29, 2023 - 4:18 am

Gigi Thank you, Bobbie. I hope you are feeling well with your pregnancy.

June 28, 2023 - 10:46 am

homeofmanyblessings Just Lovely!

June 28, 2023 - 8:33 am

Monica I do so agree and cannot love this post enough. It truly is society’s antidote! The downfall of civilization is resulted (ultimately from sin) from the created order being destroyed. Women trying to be men and turning away from the GIFT of being a try, feminine woman. It is a blessing to be a woman. Such a wonderful blessing.

The photos (the girls and baby!) are beautiful and breathtaking. The flowers on the island are looking so glorious. I cannot wait to see them. 😉

Praise God for your taking a stand on this subject. It is very encouraging and convicting.

June 27, 2023 - 5:35 pm

Annie Lovely thoughts, Gigi. I, too, long for a gentler world. And as a young mother myself I’d love to know – besides keeping house, what are some ways you help teach your daughters these ideas – acting in a more feminine way? Have you needed to set courtship standards yet? I would love to hear about some of these topics, if you ever have time.

June 27, 2023 - 4:24 pm

Michelle Oh thank you so much for this! So needed in the day which we live! I do wear dresses and dress modestly BUT have the attitudes and actions you describe here, not good…So I am guilty!
And also guilty for not being/doing the things you listed at the end. Thank you so much for this encouragement! You and your family are such a light for the Lord! Thank you!!