Let it All Go …

Today is Monday. The day I tackle laundry, baking, dinner menu planning, grocery shopping – basically everything for the week. The day that set ups how smooth the week will go for me. 

But today, I decided to scout out new locations for my session. And then I cleaned out half of the kitchen cupboards and scrubbed them down. Two garbage bags later (!), half of the cupboards are gloriously clean & organised. However, grocery shopping didn’t happen and I didn’t menu plan for the week. And this got me wondering as I folded my second load of clean laundry (thank you, laundry line!) while the cookies baked away in the oven …. will I *ever* get on top of it all? I could go from room to room to room throughout this entire house of mine and clean constantly. It’s not always dirty, but untidy … kids … you know how it goes … so how does one get on top of it all? For a moment – okay, for five minutes or so (half the day?) – I felt completely defeated. And then I started to think about October – four months away – when baby #4 joins us. How will I *ever* get it all done then? Will I be swallowed by laundry piles of dirty clothes and the rush around of schedules for the new school year? 

I came to the conclusion that I can’t do it all.

I can’t keep the house clean *all* the time. I can’t always menu plan the week out. Sometimes, grocery shopping will have to be done at midnight. And I definitely will have a basket or two of folded laundry that will need to be put away on a weekly basis. (Okay, who’s kidding who? On a daily basis.)

 

But that’s okay … cuz’ that means I can sit outside on the back porch with the girls in the afternoon and watch Lacey colour her newest artwork … or watch Lyla dance around in her underwear (does that girl wear clothes in the summer? I would like to know!) or cuddle Lucia when she’s ready for her nap.

There will always be something to do around here. But there will not always be little kids. I am honestly reminded of this quite often (even though the daily grind of life sometimes fades this feeling) because of my husband’s job. This weekend, someone lost their father. Children were without their dad for Father’s day. And a mother was without her child. 

When I think of things like that – smudged mirrors and handprints on the back porch door seem to matter less. I just have to remind myself of this and I will realize what really is important …

Yesterday, Abby had to work at the funeral home so I took the girls to a Faery Festival … and the laundry, the chores, the to-do list waited. 

Because it can. 

 

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And now, we’re going to eat some yummy cookies. Because we can. And because the laundry (albeit clean) can wait to be put away until bedtime tonight.

 

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I think someone is hungry.

 

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Okay, enough blogging. Lyla is desperate for a cookie … 

 

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P.S. These are the coveted Redneck Cookies, introduced to me by Groceries to Go. Quite a few of you have e-mailed asking for a link to the recipe since I didn’t post it last time. So, here you go. Go bake and then sit with your kids and snack away the afternoon. 

 

Yummy Redneck Cookies

 

2 cups – Quick Oats
2 cups – White Flour
1 tsp – Baking Powder
1 tsp – Baking Soda
1/2 tsp – Salt
Mix All Together and Set Aside
In Seperate Bowl Beat with Electric Mixer Until Fluffy:
1 cup – Butter, Room Temperature
1 cup – Brown Sugar
1/4 cup – White Sugar
2 Tbsp – Corn Syrup
2 tsp – Vanilla
Beat In:
2 Eggs
Mix Wet Ingredients with Dry Ingredients
Fold In:
1 cup – Chocolate Chips
1 cup – White Chocolate Chips
1 cup – Chopped Pecans or Walnuts

 

350 degrees for 10 minutes.

 

 

June 27, 2010 - 8:13 pm

Kelly Luvisotto Just wondering where this festical was held and if you have any info ie website ext

June 22, 2010 - 8:13 pm

Rachel where was the fairy festival??? Boo Hoo I missed it

June 22, 2010 - 2:07 pm

Chris Bright WOW! Lyla’s butterfly is exquisite. Where was the Fairy Festival!? Wow…beautiful.

June 22, 2010 - 12:24 pm

Heather Thanks for the recipe I’m so going to try this and have a tea party with my daughter; she will love it!!

June 22, 2010 - 10:22 am

justyna so true, it’s so easy to get overwhelmed by the day to day craziness and so important to slow down and try to enjoy these years. that festival looked lovely!

June 22, 2010 - 12:22 am

Rose Luvvvvvv the blog!!! Thank you for reminding me it’s okay to let things go!! Where was that festival??? Do you know who did the facepainting!?? Wow amazing!

June 21, 2010 - 11:23 pm

Tabitha LOL, I love Lucia’s serious little face, even when she is having faery fun!!! And the face painting fabulous!! (I love Lyla’s butterfly!). And…it’s hard sometimes to prioritize what needs to be done (because it all needs to be done!), but I am very lucky – I have a great Mom who always reminds the kids are little, and the laundry/toys/windows, etc, can wait. Congrats to you for working to find your balance!

June 21, 2010 - 9:27 pm

Tara From your blog to Gods ears! Isn’t it the truth, we have to thankful for the Cherrios that end up on the floor and those little clothes that we are blessed to fold!

June 21, 2010 - 6:23 pm

Jen Oh where was the fairy festival?? is there one every year? please tell.

June 21, 2010 - 5:10 pm

Nicole Treasure your little ones, all too soon they’re not little anymore…and then you’ll have all the time in the world to have a perfectly clean house. And really in the grand scheme of things, does anyone ever get it all done?

June 21, 2010 - 4:57 pm

Carry Thanks Gillian, a little misty eyed reminder that a snuggle with precious little ones make the laundry and chores just vanish like nothing else…and you’re right, that’s because the mess can wait! Hope you have a great week!

June 21, 2010 - 4:32 pm

Claire Oh no, I missed a fairy festival! Do you mind sharing where it was? I won’t tell Abby she will never forgive me! Your girls make beautiful fairies.

June 21, 2010 - 4:00 pm

Amanda That is so true! Beautiful photos! I’d love to take my daughter to a Fairy Festival!