“That you also aspire to lead a quiet life,
to mind your own business,
and to work with your own hands,
as we commanded you.”
1 Thessalonians 4:11
The air was hot and muggy. Mid summer heat enveloped the island and everyone, it seemed, was feeling weary. This had been a long week – with multiple farm chores, household duties and garden work requiring immediate attention. As I picked the purple and green beans from the bean patch in the warm morning sun, I was grateful for the ocean breeze that drifted through the fields. Working along the row, my thoughts wandered to what has been on my mind and heart lately.
A chat with a neighbour earlier this week brought the issue to my attention – as she listed off her fantastic accomplishments for the week or so, the beautiful projects she had conquered and the much needed improvements she had made to her home. They all sounded amazing – and quite frankly, I was suddenly feeling so inadequate.
Was I getting enough done around my own home?
Why isn’t my project list accomplished yet?
How does she get so much work done so quickly, I wondered?
And yet, as as I knelt between those beans rows and plucked the fresh pods off the bushes, I could feel the Holy Spirit tugging at my heart.
Don’t compare your life or your to-dos or your have-done with a neighbour, a friend or a relative. Just keep on working … a little bit here, a little bit there and eventually, Lord willing, my tasks will add up to an accomplishment. No one has the same life as you – we cannot compare each other, our homes, our families or our lives. We can only work at our own projects, keeping a quiet heart, managing our own chores and working steadily for the Lord.
And that you study to be quiet, and to do your own business,
and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you; that.
Proverbs 17:1
Ahhh, my favourite Scripture verse refreshed my soul. I call that advice … sweeping your own front porch.
Minding your own business and working hard. Don’t judge others and do not compare yourself or your life to someone else. It’s just time everyone picked up their own brooms and throughougly swept their own porches.
Pull your own weeds.
Paint your own fence.
Mow your grass and pick up the sticks.
Make your bed in the morning. Clean your own home.
Grow your own food. Preserve your own food!
Take care of your own children. Love your own husband.
Sweep your own front porch.
And then sit back and enjoy the view.
P.S. Here is a poem a friend shared with me recently. I absolutely loved it. It is long but please read to the end and you will be encouraged.
The Child on the Judgment Seat
That thy brow is burdened and sad?
The Master’s work may make weary feet,
But it leaves the spirit glad. Was thy garden nipped with the midnight frost,
Or scorched with the midday glare?
Were thy vines laid low, or thy lilies crushed,
That thy face is so full of care? “No pleasant garden toils were mine!
I have sat on the judgment seat,
Where the Master sits at eve, and calls
The children around his feet.” How camest thou on the judgment seat,
Sweetheart? Who set thee there?
‘Tis a lonely and lofty seat for thee,
And well might fill thee with care.
“I climbed on the judgment seat myself;
I have sat there alone all day;
For it grieved me to see the children around
Idling their life away.
“They wasted the Master’s precious seed,
They wasted the precious hours;
They trained not the vines, nor gathered the fruits,
And they trampled the sweet, meek flowers.”
And what hast thou done in the judgment seat,
Sweetheart? What didst thou there?
Would the idlers heed thy childish voice?
Did the garden mend by thy care?
“Nay, that grieved me more! I called and I cried,
But they left me there forlorn;
My voice was weak, and they heeded not,
Or they laughed my words to scorn.”
Ah, the judgment seat was not for thee!
The servants were not thine!
And the Eyes which adjudge the praise and the blame,
See further than thine or mine.
The Voice that shall sound there at eve, sweetheart,
Will not raise its tones to be heard:
It will hush the earth, and hush the hearts,
And none will resist its word.
“Should I see the Master’s treasures lost,
The stores that should feed his poor,
And not lift my voice, be it weak as it may,
And not be grieved sore?”
Wait till the evening falls, sweetheart,
Wait till the evening falls;
The Master is near, and knoweth all:
Wait till the Master calls.
But how fared thy garden plot, sweetheart,
Whilst thou sat’s on the judgment seat?
Who watered thy roses, and trained thy vines,
And kept them from careless feet?
“Nay, that is saddest of all to me!
That is saddest of all!
My vines are trailing, my roses are parched,
My lilies droop and fall.”
Go back to thy garden plot, sweetheart,
Go back till the evening falls;
And bind thy lilies, and train thy vines,
Till for thee the Master calls.
Go make thy garden fair as thou canst—
Thou workest never alone;
Perchance he whose plot is next to thine
Will see it, and mend his own.
And the next may copy his, sweetheart,
Till all grows fair and sweet;
And, when the Master comes at eve,
Happy faces his coming will greet.
Then shall thy joy be full, sweetheart,
In the garden so fair to see,
In the Master’s words of praise for all,
In a look of his own for thee.
by Gigi
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