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    Mother to six Little Women and Two Little Men. Married to a Happy Mortician. Caretaker to goats, chickens and many, MANY bunnies. Photographer. Homeschooler. Lover of Jesus, coffee & tea and all things pink & vintage.

When a Normal Day is a Gift

“The secret of contentment is the realization that life is a gift, not a right.
Next to faith this is the highest art –
to be content with the calling in which God has placed you.”
– Martin Luther

 

The wind ruffled the lace curtains that covered a somewhat dusty window… I walked my little ones upstairs for their afternoon rests after a long day in the sun so far. Summer days are delightful,warm, wonderful and full of memories, but they are tiring on little bodies who need more rest than older children …

Armed with a washcloth, I wiped off the remnants of a cookie and sandbox play on the little ones faces and tiny hands and promised them they would see their daddy when they woke up after their naps … tired and happy from play, it was not long before the boys were sleeping; the little girl simply played quietly with some tiny toys on her bed, enjoying the break from the noise of large family living. With three little ones resting, I proceeded to make my way downstairs to finish canning another batch of rhubarb ketchup.

 

Just a regular day. Eight children around me, dirt between toes, laundry folded and being put away … dinner in the crockpot and a canning project on the outdoor kitchen stove …

 

 

Nearly done, I thought, as I ladled the last of the sauce into some jars. A new and dear friend at church had given me two large batches of rhubarb and for this, I was extremely grateful. Among other treats, it makes a wonderful ketchup and will fill a pantry shelf quite nicely. I have already given away quite a few jars as presents to neighbours and friends.

 

A fresh batch of homemade bread was cooling on the table … quiet music played in the background as I wiped up the last of the canning mess and placed the jars into their water bath.

 

 

 

These days at home – working on projects at home, gardening, weeding, watering the vegetable garden, baking and preparing meals … it may seem monotonous to others, but it is truly something I enjoy. Perhaps I have trained myself to enjoy it. Sure, other adventures might seem tempting and alluring, but keeping my eyes homeward bound is my focus.

I enjoy being at home, I enjoy keeping a home, I enjoy being with my children and I enjoy being a mother and a wife. I feel very blessed to have this calling in my life. Seeing my older girls grow so quickly makes me realize motherhood years are so short and full – I don’t want to waste any of my days blinded in thinking this ‘motherhood journey’ is too much work or too much stress … this calling of motherhood is wonderful and amazing, tiring and so rich.

The afternoon passed quickly. When my little ones woke up, Lavender helped me plant some more rose bushes around the porch – flowers for mommy, she said, as her little shovel tried to help me dig some holes.

“This one is my favorite,” she said, her little girl voice warming up my heart. Of course, we planted lavender in between the rose bushes … for her … we shall see how well they all grow together … in time …

 

 

As I watched my five year old freckled girl study the rose bushes, I caught myself wondering how  motherhood can be considered boring to some people? If your day is not going well, stop and pray and start again. But you are in charge of your day – mostly – and you can find ways to enjoy it. The girls have been helping me plants all sorts of flowers around the home … blue lupines (which will not bloom until next year, but we are still hopeful for things to come!), deep pink foxgloves,  sweet-smelling roses, lavender bushes, cheerful Morning Glory, richly-scented lilac shrubs, stunning Rose of Sharon plants and of course, the ever happy and delightful sunflowers.

The fields around us also bring flowers our way – for free … we love collecting flowers from the roadside …

 

 

 

 

Perhaps to some, staying at home, working on household chores would seem dull and un-eventful, perhaps not even challenging … but all in a day’s work, we baked bread and three meals from scratch, cooked up the big batch of rhubarb preserves and canned it for the winter months, found and buried a dead bat (much to the children’s horror and tiny delight), collected wildflowers, planted flowers for our perennial gardens, washed, dried and folded loads of laundry, spread some loads of mulch, weeded the vegetable garden and still managed to have free time for reading and play in the afternoon …

 

A normal day around here truly is a gift.

 

July 8, 2019 - 4:14 pm

Gigi Rachel, oh, two years olds are great, yes? They keep life so exciting! I love it. 🙂 Yes, homemade meals and clean laundry are such bliss!

July 8, 2019 - 6:28 am

Rachel Beautiful!! I so agree with you! I do work part-time but my time at home with my 2-yr-Old is my favourite (even though we’re going through a rough patch with strong opinions, ha!!). It’s such a blessing and I am grateful that I also do enjoy my time at home doing what many consider “mundane”. I get such satisfaction out of folded laundry and home-cooked meals!
I love your blog – thank you for writing 🙂

July 3, 2019 - 5:43 am

Gigi Linda, I am sure it was encouraging to find other women at home when you were younger. And now, what a blessing you are to your daughter, helping her out in this way! That seems like the best way to spend the grandmothering years. You are wisely investing in the next generation and building up the Kingdom of God!

July 3, 2019 - 5:10 am

Linda Your normal day sounded beautiful, busy and simple 🙂 I fondly remember when my children were young and my days were all about ‘HOME’, preparing meals, laundry, etc. I too loved it and yes at times I did get overwhelmed, but it was still wonderful and fulfilling. Nearly everyone else I knew worked outside the home until I became a christian in my early 20’s. Then I met a lot of other woman who also loved being a wife, mother and homemaker. I felt like I had come home, He led me to my greatest joy. Yes these years are extraordinary in their ‘ordinariness’. These days I help my daughter two full days a week while she homeschools her children, our grandchildren. I’m thankful she has such fond memories of her childhood and is creating new ‘simple memories of joyful homemaking/mothering’ with her own children. You are a wise woman. Thank for this inspiring writing 🙂 ~ Linda

Sonny

 
“Everyday a child should have something to do,
something to think about
and something to love.” 
The Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola
It’s been a long wait (this is something we thought would be wonderful for our girls when we moved from town to country) … but with much patience and tender care …  our eldest daughter’s little foal is finally here …
and now, she definitely has something to do (care and animal chores) …
… something to think about (training)…
and something to love (how can you resist his pretty, blue eyes?) …
She has given him the name of Sundance, but his barn name will be Sunny. If she registers him, his registered name will be Little Is as Much as When God Is In It.

We all love him already.

June 16, 2019 - 5:59 am

Gigi Kristal, yes, he’s a miniature horse.

June 16, 2019 - 5:58 am

Gigi Debby, yes, his eyelashes are fantastic!

June 16, 2019 - 5:58 am

Gigi Patricia, thank you. I think it would be a fun experience, as well. 🙂

June 15, 2019 - 7:54 pm

Patricia Jackson Awww He is absolutely adorable, what a blessing. How wonderful to grow up with a new pony ❤️ Love his name too!

June 14, 2019 - 4:21 pm

Debby in Kansas, USA He’s just precious! I love his eyelashes! Enjoy that sweet baby!

June 14, 2019 - 11:33 am

Kristal Cute! Will he be a miniature? His name is perfect as well.

June 13, 2019 - 10:13 pm

Regina Shea He’s so cute! I love his coloring. I know you all are going to give him lots of love. I know I would!

Dandy Jelly

 

 

It gives one a sudden start in going down a barren, stony street,
to see upon a narrow strip of grass, just within the iron fence, the radiant dandelion,
shining in the grass, like a spark dropped from the sun.

~ Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887)

With our very cool, wet and late spring, we have been blessed (in my opinion) with a later bountiful crop of those lovely, smiling yellow dandelions. I was surprised to hear from my friend in Alabama that they do not have dandelions growing in their grass. Perhaps we take them for granted! And while my husband does not find them appealing scattered throughout our yard, they are a fantastic and useful plant to have around the home.

 

This spring, we were able to harvest some dandelions and make a few fun items with them – a dandelion salve and dandelion jelly. I thought it would be nice to share the recipe of the “Dandy Jelly”, which tastes just like honey and so pretty to give as gifts or line up in your pantry.

 

After you have gathered your blossoms, the first step in making your dandelion jelly is to make dandelion tea.  Fill a mason jar with freshly washed dandelion heads and cover with boiling water. Let it sit overnight.

 

In the morning, we strained the tea and put the soggy dandelion flowers into the compost. The tea will now be used for our Dandy Jelly! You will need about four cups of the dandelion tea for this recipe. [You can add a little bit of water to the tea if it does not reach four cups.]

 

You will now need the following:

* 8 cups of sugar (I reduced it the first time and it did not set  -so, if you feel like there is too much sugar, go ahead and reduce, but do so with caution! It may be very runny or too liquid.)

* Place sugar and dandelion liquid into a big pot. Add 1/2 cup of lemon juice and stir well.

Bring to a full rolling boil and boil for a few minutes.

Add two packages of liquid certo and boil for another few minutes.

Ladle into clean mason jars (small ones make prettier gifts) and seal. I water bathed for 20 minutes.

The recipe is from The Blessed Hearth.

 

 

It is such a pretty jelly and makes a pleasant and surprising gift … it is such a cheerful, happy colour and tastes delicious on a warm biscuit, straight from the oven. Smothered on breakfast toasts is just as scrumptious!

 

June 13, 2019 - 7:15 pm

Gigi It is a pretty colour, isn’t it? 🙂

June 11, 2019 - 11:18 am

Monica It turned out just lovely!!! A beautiful gold color. And so healthy for you!!!

June 10, 2019 - 4:22 pm

Gigi Oh, Emma, you are so sweet! I will go check out the link. ((hugs))

June 10, 2019 - 4:21 pm

Gigi Melissa, I am so glad to hear your children loved the jelly! How fun! Thank you for leaving a comment. 🙂

June 10, 2019 - 2:27 pm

Melissa I was so intrigued by this so, after collecting dandelions this weekend, I made a batch this morning. Two thumbs up from all three kids! Thanks, what a great way to use up our hosts and hosts of dandelions.

June 10, 2019 - 1:30 pm

Emma Good afternoon, Gigi!
Just wanted to let you know that I have nominated you for the Liebster Award… You’re welcome to take a look at my post here: https://myredemptionforhisglory.wordpress.com/2019/06/10/liebster-award-nomination/ to view more information on it.
May you have hope/joy-filled day in Christ! 🙂

Gentle Outside {School} – The Younger Years

“No, I don’t want any more elaborate Kindergarten materials… if the child is left to himself, he will think more and better, if less showily. Let him go and come freely. Let him touch real things, and combine his impressions for himself, instead of sitting indoors at the little round table, while a sweet voiced teacher suggests that he build a stone wall with his wooden blocks, or make a rainbow out of strips of coloured paper, or plant straw trees in bead flower pots. Such teaching fills the mind with artificial associations that must be got rid of before the child can develop independent ideas out of actual experiences.”
Annie Sullivan, teacher to Helen Keller

 

 “Let’s go down to the little creek and do our reading there,” I suggested to the girls and little boy, one grey morning. Learning and reading outdoors is always so much more enjoyable to everyone. Not only that, but little ones can play, join us or wander and discover peeping frogs and muddy puddles while the sisters sound out new words and learn about articles, adverbs and prepositions. Yes, schooling outdoors is a favorite of mine.

 

Our little creek is just that – little. It’s a run off from the farmer’s field beside us. It’s not magnificent by any standards, but it is wonderful to us. It always has something interesting in it and the little ones (and big ones) like to dip their feet into the cool water and giggle and laugh as the freezing cold water tickles their dirty toes. We have found many interesting insects, even a newt or salamander or two, in this shallow water.

 

We are reading The Tale of Jeremy Vole as our little one’s chapter book – it is a sweet story about a river vole who needs to warn the riverbank dwellers of an upcoming flood. It seems so appropriate to read the charming English book with a tiny little “river” bubbling away in front of us. It does make the fictional story seem so much more alive to little ears.
Once our  short lesson was over, the children were free to wander, play and discover.

 

Later that week, the children and I were doing an errand at a local greenhouse – we were taking a country road home when we spotted a cheerful path of “giant buttercups” all over the ditch and wet, marshy areas near the road.

 

“I believe that’s marsh marigold, mommy,” one of the girls pointed out, as we noticed the bright yellowed flowers decorating the field and areas close to the road.

The older girls were able to quickly recognize the flowers because of a book we had read together last year …  it was decided upon that we would return with a shovel and a few buckets and replant some of these pretty cheery flowers in our marshy area of our yard. And so we did …. now there are a few marsh marigolds growing down in our wet spots in the shady corner of our yard …  we were also able to share some with our neighbour who also has a wet patch in her yard.

A young mother visited recently and asked about kindergarten for her little child … oh, how passionate I feel about keeping your child with you at home, especially for those tender kindergarten years … instead of shuffling them off to a large – or even small and brightly lit and seemingly exciting – school room. There is much to learn at home with the mother, if the mother will take the time to engage the child and open up a world of learning in the small wonderful backyard and kitchen of her home.

 

In reference to outdoor time with mother and child from the Charlotte Mason Home Education, Volume 1:

They must be let alone, left to themselves a great deal to take in what they can of the beauty of the earth and heavens; for of the evils of modern education, few are worse than this – that the perpetual cackle of his elders leaves the poor child not a moment of time, nor an inch of space wherein to wonder- and grow. At the same time, here is the mother’s opportunity to train the seeing eye, the hearing ear, and to drop seeds of truth into the open soul of the child, which shall germinate, blossom, and bear fruit, without further knowledge or help of hers. Then, there is much to be got by perching in a tree or nestling in heather, but muscular development comes of more active ways, and an hour or two should be spent in vigorous play; and last, and truly least, a lesson or two must be got in.”
-Home Education, Outdoor Life for the Children

June 5, 2019 - 8:34 am

Gigi Thank you! Both dresses I liked are out of stock (the vintage inspired ones). I will have to check back. Hopefully soon? 🙂 (size small!)

June 4, 2019 - 2:53 pm

Gigi Teresa, what is your daughter’s online store url?

June 3, 2019 - 11:36 pm

Teresa@ Simply Farmhouse Gigi, thank you for your visit to my blog. What a lovely post of your simple life. ~ I just love your little creek. What a lovely place to read. Hugs, Sweet friend.

June 3, 2019 - 3:19 pm

Gigi Bobbie, I know we have chatted about doing a homeschooling post. There is so much involved, I have a hard time thinking about breaking it all down. We read from a list I make up myself, but it is referred from The Charlotte Mason reading lists/some sonlight suggestions (but not all) and some from other homeschooling sites. I try to find good reading lists and build up our library. It is easier the second half of children because I already have all the books on hand. 😉
We do one read aloud for everyone, aimed at the highest age, and then one read aloud for the younger bunch. Each girl has an assigned reading book for the time, as well.

June 3, 2019 - 3:18 pm

Gigi Monica, yes, back porch school = perfect. 🙂 Today we had milk and cookies while reading on the upstairs porch in the sunshine. 🙂

June 3, 2019 - 2:31 pm

Monica How neat that you could find the marsh marigold that were in the book! I’m convinced the two most important aspects of education for the younger years are reading and hands on nature! So fun to see them combined. I remember when I taught fourth grade I tried to get permission to take my students outdoors to teach them and got refused permission. Isn’t that crazy? We have the best opportunity in teaching our own children! I’d say MOST of our schooling is done on the back porch—outdoors!

Lovelyn’s hair is looking mighty lovely! ❤️

June 3, 2019 - 2:22 pm

Our Home of Many Blessings I would love to know how you guys do your reading. Do you assign each one a different book or try to get the same book for everyone to follow or whatever.I love posts like this,so down to earth and simple.Have you shared in the past what curriculum you use or is it a mixture of some things you love.

The Great Sunflower {Project} – Turning to the Light

  “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmoveable,
always abounding in the work of the Lord,
forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 15:58

How are we to work for the Lord?
Always abounding.
The
Greek word abounding means ‘to be excessive’;
over the top, going beyond what is necessary … super abundant.
That sounds like a fun way to live, doesn’t it?
Are you living this way in your home?
It’s very easy to live boringly.
It’s so sad when we live in our homes in a boring manner …
you don’t have to be like that.
It all depends on our attitude.
Ladies, we have the power to make our homes what we want them to be …

Dear precious mother, if you want a joyful home,
make a joyful home!

If you want an exciting home, make it exciting!
Think of exciting things to do!
If you want a home filled with peace, be a peacemaker.
We make the environment that we want to have.
It’s interesting – everything in God is not normal –
it’s over the top … more than is necessary. Super abundant.
Get out of the normal, the boring and the status quo –
spend a little time thinking,
‘ Now Jesus, what can I do tomorrow that will make my home more exciting?'”

-Above Rubies, Nancy Campbell


 

 

“Girls, let’s plant a LOT of sunflowers this year,” I said one morning as I dished out eight bowls of hot cinnamon-and-butter oatmeal. “How many should we plant?”

The young ladies [and two little boys] around the breakfast table chattered away with excitement, throwing out suggestions of how many sunflowers would be good for our garden, wondering where we should plant them and so forth. Somehow, in our wild, unplanned conversation, the number ‘200’ was brought forth.

“Two hundred sunflowers? Sure, let’s do it!” was my reply. Into the big ol’ family van we tumbled after breakfast and headed to the local  tractor supply store to purchase enough seeds and trays for our Big Sunflower Project. I felt a little silly at the store counter as the cashier rang up the sunflower seeds and little brown pots for the seedlings. I’ll just call it a school project, I thought … 

 

“Do you plant seeds?” I asked the cashier lady, as she rang up the bill. She shrugged, stuffing the seed packages into a plastic bag, and replied she didn’t have the time to care for seeds. Well, perhaps we can bring her a sunflower after it grows a little. I tucked that thought in the back of my head and made a note to remember in a few weeks…

That afternoon, Lyla, with some small helpers at her side, was given the task to start planting two hundred sunflowers in little peat moss trays. Every day, she was to water them, turn them so their receive proper amount of light and carry out the trays if the day is warm enough and sunny enough for the seedlings to have some fresh outdoor air.

 

 

[Carrying 200 seedlings up and down her staircase from her bedroom is a small workout, no doubt. One does not think of that when we planted 200 little seeds; we are grateful for all the little sisters’ help in transporting the seedlings from sunny room to sunny locations.]

Now, it is a few weeks later and Lyla is very proud of her growing sunflowers.  We love to watch the seedlings literally turning to the light every day, searching out the golden sunrays that may come its way.

“We have to turn them,” I explained to the girls, as they helped carry the little green stems, full of promise and hope, outside for an afternoon of sunshine. “They need to grow straight and tall and strong …”

Just like ourselves … often times, stuck in darkness, waiting for the promise of a brighter day, turning to our Light, I thought, as we gently watered each 200 seedling, examining the tender plants for growth …

… I need to reach for the Sonshine that will bring me through the any darkness and help our family grow strong and tall in a dark world … we all have painful trials, time of winter when we need some sunshine in our lives – let these sunflowers, as they grow this summer, be a reminder to me that we can turn to the Light and renew our strength.

 

“Like a seedling in the clay
When the sun’s first golden ray,
Marks the breaking of the day,
I am turning to the light.

I am turning to the light
I am reaching toward the sun,
I have journeyed through the night
And the battle now is won,
There’s a new song in my heart,
There’s a new day dawning bright;
Oh, I’m turning to the light.”

 



{Lovelyn, with her sunflower, two summers ago}

We cannot wait to plant them outdoors in the soil – although we are still not sure where or how to plant them … in a group in the garden for a stunning arrival as you pull up the driveway? Or along the fenceline behind where the children have their swings? Perhaps in a room-shape, where you can enter between sunflowers and find yourself in a sunshiney-happy-sunflower-lined room?

In any case, we are all looking forward to watching them grow and seeing their beautiful happy flower faces appear in later summer.

 

 

May 21, 2019 - 5:04 pm

Debby in Kansas, USA I hope they all bloom beautifully and you’ll share pictures! Sunflowers are the state flower here in Kansas. A smaller species of them grow wild in summertime and they’re everywhere. Seeing bunches of them on the side of the road always make me smile. As for location, I vote for the fence line. I think they’ll make a wonderful border.

I copied the Nancy Campbell quote to put into my Housewife Notebook in my Encouragement section. On those days when I feel droopy, I love to read that section. I may not accomplish a whole lot, but it usually perks me up enough to make something inside prettier.

May 17, 2019 - 9:31 pm

Gigi Fence – yes!

May 17, 2019 - 9:31 pm

Gigi Kristal, oh, I am sorry to hear that. You can definitely try seeding outdoors but it depends on the seed and how long it takes to mature, your zone and weather conditions. You could also buy some started seedlings/plants and go from there. It would be encouraging to see the growth!

May 17, 2019 - 9:29 pm

Gigi Teresa, that’s a great idea for Lyla. 🙂 I will mention it to her!
The seeder sounds fantastic. 🙂 So great to hear from you. I hope you are doing well!

May 17, 2019 - 12:02 pm

Teresa I love sunflowers ! some varieties are so nice and tall, Lyla can set up a booth at the end of the driveway and sell them 🙂 I’ve been meaning to mention to you to look up at Lee Valley, they have a precision garden seeder that is AMAZING! there are different plates you insert when you are doing your garden. Happy gardening !

May 17, 2019 - 10:34 am

Kristal What a great project for your family! Looking back at your picture from two years ago, I am amazed at how tall sunflowers grow. I’m sad to report our little seeds never game to fruition. We planted them in little seed cups. After a few weeks we saw sprouts, and then they all suddenly died. We kept going, but they never came back. I don’t know if we over watered or under watered (they had plenty of sun). I’m debating still trying again, but directly planting out in a raised garden bed, now that the weather is consistently warm. Have you ever had luck planting directly outdoors?

May 17, 2019 - 9:26 am

Monica I love the quote from Nancy Campbell. That is so inspiring! And so true! I love your sunflower project! I vote up against the fence. 🙂