The Journey of Motherhood

“I often look at my children and think of the line Emmerson wrote,
‘All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.’

To have a child is one of the greatest privileges a woman can ever know.
Mothers are not necessarily made when the child is born.
There is a great difference between merely bearing children and becoming a mother in the truest sense of the word.
The primary attribute of motherhood is love.

How important it is to spend lots and lots of time with our children — reading to them, talking to them, listening to them, playing games with them, singing to them; you know, these years when they are young and so precious;
I hope we don’t have to ask ourselves, with tears in our eyes, a few years from now,
“Why, oh why, didn’t I spend more time with my dearl children when they were young and needed me so?”

-Beautiful Homemaking; Charlene Johnson

 

 

Motherhood, for me, has been quite the journey – a 22 year long journey so far!

I’m so grateful that God impressed upon our hearts to homeschool and “keep” our children in a way others may not have understood. Now, as I ’suddenly’ have adult children – along with all my precious little ones – I can truly look back and see how the every day moments make up the big moments, how the little memories are the biggest and most important, how the daily walks or talk, the read alouds together during school days, the afternoons on the trampoline and the moments spent picking wildflowers together … these are all the moments that have made up my motherhood life.

I cannot imagine life without homeschooling – how many hours I would have wasted, not being with my children! Yes, homeschooling is difficult some days – other days, it is a joy and a ‘breeze’ – but I would not trade all those moments for an afternoon of ‘me’ time and a quiet, clean household. (But, by the way, there is still a way to have quiet times and a reasonably clean and tidy home, all while homeschooling … just ask me how … this is a topic near and dear to my heart!)

 

Yes, motherhood and caring for my children has been a calling – and one I treasure. When I talk to other mothers and they tell me of their problems, their lack of time, their unfinished goals or unhappy feelings; sometimes I can see right through their dilemna … dare I say it, it’s mostly selfish feelings, desires of the world or perhaps a lack of maternal nurturing love towards the children … your motherhood journey with little ones is not as long you think.

Make it your priority and your life calling. Have fun with your children! Step away from the world and make your home your resting place, a nurturing environment and a wonderful life for your family. 

 

I will always be thankful for so many little ones to love and raise – it has been – and still is a delightful journey.

April 25, 2026 - 5:03 pm

Gigi Ana, I’m so glad you were blessed to move to the country – what an answer to prayer! I bet it is just gorgeous! (Would love to see photos!) You sound like you are very busy, still, caring for your new children. God will certainly bless you for being such a loving mother!

April 25, 2026 - 5:02 pm

Gigi Regina, I know what you mean about re-doing things, but we must do our best toad leave the rest to God! (Hugs) I love large Christian families, as well! They are harder to find in this new society!

April 25, 2026 - 5:02 pm

Gigi 867
Hello Gigi, what beautiful words to describe that wonderful feeling, that eternal task that God has entrusted to us, His daughters. Having children is a precious gift from our Heavenly Father. I have been blessed with nine children with my beloved husband, and we have been married for 48 years. We also have four adopted children with special needs. Our children have already left home to live their own lives with new families. We are now only with our children and their needs. I am 66 years old and continue on this privileged path called motherhood. Today I also enjoy my 18 grandchildren. What more could I ask for? I am happy with my life in the countryside, something I longed for for a long time, and six months ago God granted us the opportunity to move to this rural area, as if we were starting a new life. Blessings from Buenos Aires, dear sister.

April 25, 2026 - 12:59 pm

Regina Shea It’s hard to believe you have adult children now because I remember when they were younger. All.my daughters are adults too and I wish I could go back in time and change a few things in their upbringing. Two of my adult daughters still live at home for which I’m grateful. My oldest lives in another state.
I haven’t be honest I keep hoping for your next pregnancy announcement because I just love large Christian families! Sounds silly I’m sure.

April 24, 2026 - 5:37 pm

ANA HOLA GIGI, QUE HERMOSAS PALABRAS PARA DESCRIBIR ESE SENTIMIENTO TAN HERMOSO,ESE TRABAJO ETERNO QUE DIOS NOS PUSO A NOSOTRAS SUS HIJAS, TENER HIJOS ES UN DON MUY PRECIADO QUE VIENE DE NUETRO PADRE CELESTIAL. HE SIDO BENDECIDA CON 9 HIJOS JUNTO A MI AMADO ESPOSO, QUE YA CUMPLIMOS 48 AÑOS DE CASADO Y TAMBIEN TENEMOS 4 HIJOS ADOPTADOS CON NECESIDADES ESPECIALES, NUESTROS HIJOS YA HAN DEJADO EL NIDO PARA VIVIR SU PROPIA VIDA CON UNA NUEVA FAMILIA,SOLO ESTAMOS CON NUESTROS HIJOS CON SUS NECESIDADES, TENGO 66 AÑOS Y SIGO EN ESTE CAMINO TAN PRIVILEGIADO QUE SE LLAMA MATERNIDAD. HOY TAMBIEN DISFRUTO DE MIS 18 NIETOS, ¿QUE MAS PUEDO PEDIR? SOY FELYZ CON MI VIDA EN EL CAMPO, ALGO QUE ANHELE HACE MUCHO TIEMPO Y HACE 6 MESES DIOS NOS CONCEDIO PODER MUDARNOS A ESTA ZONA RURAL, COMO SI VOLVIERAMOS A EMPEZAR UNA NUEVA VIDA. BENDICIONES DESDE BUENOS AIRES QUERIDA HERMANA.